When you're an emotionally draining person, you leak out whatever feeling you have. Women are highly empathetic. I'm sure you'd have noticed you drain the woken you visit out of energy in a short amount of time. It's nothing to brag about. Most girls who do this work sometimes don't know how to block themselves from takers. It's why we prefer receivers than takers. Those who receive only what we're willing to give as opposed to those who start draining is no warning.