To ask or not?

[bmw528]

I would suggest just saying "Don't forget to leave a review!" as the guy is on the way out. That way you aren't putting him in a position to answer you but you are still reminding him about it.

Dont know about that now. Most people dont need to be reminded about leaving a review. Just because a review isint given doesnt mean that they didnt have a good time. They could be just shy about letting everyone know their business.

[koopa98]

Nobody is giving much of their business away but typing a sentence or two.

“Met xxxxx today, lovely girl and excellent at what she does. Will probably return in the future.” Is the easiest review to make and will probably get you some bonus points with that girl if you visit again.

Now if you had a bad time but are too polite to say something and decide to not leave a review is completely understandable I’ve been there recently.

If I had a good time I always just mention on the way out I’ll leave a good review because they mean a lot, especially to girls under 100

[bmw528]

Nobody is giving much of their business away but typing a sentence or two.

“Met xxxxx today, lovely girl and excellent at what she does. Will probably return in the future.” Is the easiest review to make and will probably get you some bonus points with that girl if you visit again.

Now if you had a bad time but are too polite to say something and decide to not leave a review is completely understandable I’ve been there recently.

If I had a good time I always just mention on the way out I’ll leave a good review because they mean a lot, especially to girls under 100

Ye mean under a hundred years old?

[Launcelot]

Reviews here or elsewhere often say more about the reviewer than the SP and often help you figure out if it’s “your type” especially if they have reviewed frequently.

There is a “profile” and common preference in terms of SP.

What are your thoughts.

[ford pefect]

I sometimes ask for reviews in my own business, sometimes they do and sometimes they don't see the harm in asking.

[AmyTantraMassage]

Ok, i am not brave enough to ask, as i see in your answers, i did wrong for not asking, thank you very much i do appreciate.
Well i invite with this ocasion everybody to review me if they met me someday or they will meet me in the future hihi

You didn’t do anything wrong hon. It’s no about being brave. It’s a pride thing. Imo, reviews are like tips. Girls shouldn’t have to ask. Either punters want to or not. Was the session good enough to review or not? Did she exceed your expectations? Was it subpar? Disappointing? Being ‘brave enough’ to ask, imo, depends on if you gave it your all or not? Like are you afraid it’ll be a bad review? If yes, why? Otherwise, it’s a matter of pride. You know you give a great service so you shouldn’t have to ask. Same for punters, was I satisfied enough for a review or not?

I feel asking for 1 is putting them on the spot because they know you expect a good one but what if the session wasn’t good? Asking for a review feels like you want them to rave about you, imo, whereas as should be because they want to that way, you can be sure it was honest as opposed to they had to coz you asked. But that’s just me.

[EllaBella]

Yes Amy, is about the pride for me, becouse i know i deserve good review is about dignity aswell why to ask for something i know i deserve?and is about fear even if the meeting was good maybe the person feel offended being asked(maybe he was about to review without being asked) and i spoil the surprise. I allways saw reviews as a good surprise.
Yes i think girls ahouldnt have to ask, i had many good meetings and was expecting for reviews but becouse i didnt ask i left disapointed just waiting and checking profile to see if somebody thought to write one.
But i did learn from your answers i hope is not easy to let the pride of beig good go off and will try to not have expectations without any effort from me.
Anyway some reviewers are not even in the forum so still is not clear 100 procent if should ask or not
I appreciate some girls give theyr opinions aswell so thank you!

[MrTony]

Hi Ella Bella
In my opinion asking someone for review is a beg for higher status which the escort may not merit.
I have plenty of favourites and regulars and so they do as well and yet they have no way near as many reviews as others. I havent even reviewed them myself ...its private.But they have plenty of regulars .
It's also so wrong when an escort texts you where is her review a few days after . It's so unprofessional and certainly not discreet .
A client should feel like it's a natural thing ,not forced upon. I've had an escort text me saying if you dont give me a review don't call me for a second meeting.
So be humble ,polite and a true courtesan....it is the most beautiful way to do business ...In any business that is...
See you soon when back in Dublin .x

[patpz]

Hi Ella, you could put a line or two at the end of your profile just saying, reviews welcome, at least then clients will know.

[Harry68]

What are providers feelings on multiple reviews by same person?

I generally leave repeat reviews mainly because first person that ever asked me for a review said she didn't mind getting them but I get sense it may not be the done thing. I personally like to see someone with repeat reviews but that again may just be me.

To be clear on my text message post visit thing its happened maybe twice and from people relatively new to the scene who probably didn't have the English to ask at that time . Its not an issue for me now getting a message but I can see why it would be for many.

IF figures of 3 to 10% people review mentioned here and IF reviews are in anyway important (both unquanifiable) then every good review is important.