When the masseuse tells you to touch her, what do you do, or how do you touch?
My take on it is, only touch her when she requests it, and only lightly on her lower back or bum, as that’s usually where she puts my hand.
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When the masseuse tells you to touch her, what do you do, or how do you touch?
My take on it is, only touch her when she requests it, and only lightly on her lower back or bum, as that’s usually where she puts my hand.
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Wait until it is suggested and then it depends if she's topless or naked. If topless stay above the waist, small of the back first and move on to the boobs. If naked touch her gently on the bum, move up to the boobs and then down to the pussy if she'll let you !!. If she climbs up on the bed beside you, she is definitely offering full service.Originally Posted by tonythetimetraveller
Ignore the post above. He's either trolling or he was dropped on the head as a child a few times. Repeatedly. On purpose.
Ask the masseuse, she'll tell you. Simple.
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You obviously haven't met the masseuses's I've met. But I do accept your point as you are a professional in the industry. But please be more polite the next time you reply to me. (Not suggesting you need to). Good luck and good day to you .
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This is surely the key bit. That' "encouraged". But like any other woman you would best to be gradual. And I would say "Is that ok?" as you approach anything intimate.
Also this is what reviews are for. If every review is "She wanted me to enjoy myself fully," "it was very interactive" etc then that's an indicator of what other people received. Although at her discretion she is entitled not to provide that to you. And reviews may be years old, the level of intimacy typically granted can change.
Nah. My initial access assessment was spot on. Only sound advice that doesn't border and cross over to assault should be given. Not delusions and encouraging sexual assault.
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I think this is a great question. I wish someone had asked before I started my visits.
I think boring as it is "consent" should be at the back of both parties minds in these situations no matter how hot and bothered one or both parties are. If someone says "you can touch me" its best to clarify what is involved first. State of dress or undress is irrelevant. I generally ask something like "where can I put my hands" if guidance is not forthcoming and so on and so forth. Because "x" is given it doesn't follow "y" is. Forget what you've heard a poster (or a hundred posters) say that provider A has a trained monkey she always gets out to give you a Mongolian foreskin clean. If she doesn't offer or says no when I ask for the monkey that should be the end of the matter. Maybe she doesn't want to bring the monkey out today. Maybe the monkey is not feeling well. Maybe (gasp) the monkey doesn't like you for whatever reason.
By the same token I don't like assumptions being made about what I like or don't. I like being asked generally although I won't say no to a surprise and rare escalation. Its been a while since I inspired wild abandon in anyone so its not a huge issue for me. If I visit again like I generally tend to do then some sort of general guidelines are in the back of both parties minds. I think it is one of the benefits of seeing someone more than once . Notwithstanding that I wouldn't assume anything from multiple visits will necessarily be offered again or agreed to if I asked even if it happened before.
My eldest (boy) has completed a course on consent at school. It seems a flimsy defence against a deluge of porn through the internet but I'm hoping he will be a semi decent human being in his interactions in the sexual sphere. Richie Sadlier's book is an excellent if depressing read that touches on the subject. He's still a s***e football pundit though.
My 2c.
A masseuse, or escort, will ask you what you like at the outset, and will continue to ask if you are happy, and enjoying yourself.
On occasion, girls have placed my hands on her body. I would always ask before initiating anything myself.
Treat every person you meet with respect and always confirm consent both ways throughout an encounter.
This is true for every sexual encounter.
Last edited by billyboy; 19-12-23 at 19:58. Reason: Additional information
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Personally for me it’s definitely at the forefront of my mind not to overstep the mark. If I’m in doubt I ask. It’s simple if I get a “no” then I simply don’t do it. Imho this is the right way I’ve had as many say yes as I have said no but suggest that if in doubt ask. Saves embarrassment and or offence. I’ve also found that if I stay within set boundaries that future visits can sometimes become more fruitful. I
Last edited by Dmac11; 19-12-23 at 20:38.
THIS ABOVE.
when having a massage I’d never touch a lady unless she motions to it. Caressing her bum legs etc once she is ok with it, don’t just assume you can.
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