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    Default Telling the ladies you’re an EI Punter

    Here’s one for ye lads

    When you’re contacting and arranging a visit. Do you mention that you’re a member on EI. I appreciate some ladies want to know and give EI members priority, but I’m talking about the ones that don’t mention it.

    I used to, but then I just stopped doing it. Just feel it’s a needless snippet of information and can come across the wrong way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nononsense111 View Post
    Here’s one for ye lads

    When you’re contacting and arranging a visit. Do you mention that you’re a member on EI. I appreciate some ladies want to know and give EI members priority, but I’m talking about the ones that don’t mention it.

    I used to, but then I just stopped doing it. Just feel it’s a needless snippet of information and can come across the wrong way.

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    If i have interacted with her on the forum yes, if not no, unless her profile asks to do so.

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    I prefer not to say. The only way she'll know is if I leave a review, like a mystery shopper
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    I never mention it on booking , I have been, asked when I’m leaving if I’m on the forum and would I mind leaving a review , then asked my user name , don’t think it matters to the ladies

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    Quote Originally Posted by ford pefect View Post
    I never mention it on booking , I have been, asked when I’m leaving if I’m on the forum and would I mind leaving a review , then asked my user name , don’t think it matters to the ladies
    This , exactly. Has no bearing on the meeting

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nononsense111 View Post
    Here’s one for ye lads

    When you’re contacting and arranging a visit. Do you mention that you’re a member on EI. I appreciate some ladies want to know and give EI members priority, but I’m talking about the ones that don’t mention it.

    I used to, but then I just stopped doing it. Just feel it’s a needless snippet of information and can come across the wrong way.

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    Yes, they might think you were looking for the red carpet treatment.
    Last edited by bmw528; 10-12-23 at 19:54. Reason: And god knows there are quite a few Little Lord Fauntleroys floating around here lately.

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    Interesting thread to ponder and comes down to personal choice as indicated by replies so far. However, it does throw up some indicators (good and bad) and possible implications - bear with me! The biggest indicator from the escort is if she accepts PM's and it doesn't matter whether she replies or not as this gives her a chance to read your reviews (and what you like if there is plenty of them) and can act accordingly! The "user name" has no bearing in my view as she will know you anyway if you leave a review (time & date) - for me personally it works both ways, because invariably I will visit the escort again (as a lot reviewers comment on in their reviews), so in essence you a building a relationship in the circumstances! I really do think we do not give enough credit to the escorts, who after a few years in the game "suss" out the punters from the initial communication and can more or less ascertain if they are on the forum - it matters not at the end of the day.

    My punting days are nearly over and it is with great pride that I can look back (apologies to those who've heard this before) at some of the comments/replies I have received over the years from some special escorts who have said the nicest things about me and reading some of my lengthly reviews, it reminds me of what ACTUALLY happened, because I dare anyone who can remember everything from any visit from years previously!!! Each to their own, but my history will validate all my experiences (and cost) with no regrets - maybe others should consider this angle!

    We all seem to leave our views known through various topics on the forum and indeed the regulars who consistently recommend escorts by posting their profile, which no doubt helps enormously to the escorts concerned - surely this contradicts by being known to the escorts or have I lost the plot!!! Anyway, it will always be a personal choice but from my overall experience, being upfront has many advantages and I shall continue using Thoreau!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nononsense111 View Post
    This , exactly. Has no bearing on the meeting
    It does to those who only provide good service to members. Me, I'd leave me feeling like she only did that for a review and didn't actually enjoy the sesh. But I'm a paranoid fuck like that.

    If a guy mentions that to me, my only thought is, is he expecting preferential treatment? Especially as members usually mention this for a quid pro quo. Had some have the nerve to ask me for a discount and others even had the nerve to ask for services I don't provide in exchange for a 'raving' review. They were kicked out with no service.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AmyTantraMassage View Post
    It does to those who only provide good service to members. Me, I'd leave me feeling like she only did that for a review and didn't actually enjoy the sesh. But I'm a paranoid fuck like that.

    If a guy mentions that to me, my only thought is, is he expecting preferential treatment? Especially as members usually mention this for a quid pro quo. Had some have the nerve to ask me for a discount and others even had the nerve to ask for services I don't provide in exchange for a 'raving' review. They were kicked out with no service.
    lol, cheeky fuckers. You’re dead right too

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    One girl I met recently had a very interesting take on it. I didn’t disclose I was a member but she was telling me about an earlier appointment in the week where a client had said “I’m so and so on the forum and I’ll leave you a good review and maybe even a tip if it’s good “ . She was raging, said it was really dehumanising and felt like a carrot being dangled in front of her face

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