Time wasting

[JennyIrish]

Apparently, I've been reported as a "serial time-waster".

Anybody who looks at my multiple reviews will see that is not the case. I've easily visited twice as many as I've reviewed but, out of niceness, have not reviewed less satisfactory meetings.

I have a very busy job, very busy family life and live a good 35 minute drive out of the centre of Dublin. I have to plan ahead, which can mean contacting an escort, seeing if she's free at a certain time and then taking it no further if things don't align.

Furthermore, I like rough sex - either giving or receiving - and, when asked if this is something she enjoys, most escorts answer "no", which again means taking things no further.

That's not time-wasting, that's planning ahead to make sure my hard-earned money gets me exactly the type of appointment I'm looking for.

Omg I’ve missed you!! Thought you’d fallen off the face of the earth!!!

I told you to stop calling it rough sex - you’re a Dom, simple as!

I can vouch for this gent ladies, we have had many a horny session, he’s polite, distinguished, athletic and if ur into a dominant male (which I totally am!) he’s unreal to spend an hour with!

Missed you LDS!

[Long Dong Silver]

Omg I’ve missed you!! Thought you’d fallen off the face of the earth!!!

I told you to stop calling it rough sex - you’re a Dom, simple as!

I can vouch for this gent ladies, we have had many a horny session, he’s polite, distinguished, athletic and if ur into a dominant male (which I totally am!) he’s unreal to spend an hour with!

Missed you LDS!

Nope! Still here! Hope you're well.

[Marko1980]

Nope! Still here! Hope you're well.

I love this sort of reunion. Its beautiful.

[Barney Rubble]

True, but, again, I don't do that. My normal modus operandi is:
Hello x
Hello baby
I would like to ask about a possible appointment with you.
Ok baby, when you wanna come and for how long?
Well, first of all, I wanted to check if you enjoy rough sex, giving or taking?
No baby, sorry.

That can't be taken as a confirmed booking.

Is ruff sex doin it doggy style?

[ladiesman217]

Is ruff sex doin it doggy style?

Sofia? Ban please? Sofia??

[AmyTantraMassage]

Apparently, I've been reported as a "serial time-waster".

Anybody who looks at my multiple reviews will see that is not the case. I've easily visited twice as many as I've reviewed but, out of niceness, have not reviewed less satisfactory meetings.

I have a very busy job, very busy family life and live a good 35 minute drive out of the centre of Dublin. I have to plan ahead, which can mean contacting an escort, seeing if she's free at a certain time and then taking it no further if things don't align.

Furthermore, I like rough sex - either giving or receiving - and, when asked if this is something she enjoys, most escorts answer "no", which again means taking things no further.

That's not time-wasting, that's planning ahead to make sure my hard-earned money gets me exactly the type of appointment I'm looking for.

Time-wasting is agreeing on services/accepting boundaries, then agreeing on an exact time and being told when to confirm. Should you confirm and not turn up, that's time-wasting. Should you make a long booking (any booking a girl has to slot off 2 hours or more for the app, prep and cleanup after), then you don't bother cancelling (not confirming is not cancelling in this instance) then you're a time waster. Especially if it's NOT your 1st visit. But the 1st 3 parameters have to be met for you to be considered a timewaster.

[AmyTantraMassage]

Simply asking for a time can come across their side as booking that time.

Are you free for 1hr at 21:00. They’re thinking ok this number is in for 9

Eh, nope. Not for those of us who work by app only/don't take last min appointments. It's why I then text 'I've booked you for (insert duration) at (time) (rate)' Then I give a 10 minute confirmation window - the app can be confirmed earlier in case they might be driving/won't get the chance to text, but never outside my 10min window. 1 min after confirmation time, I've already made other plans. No joke. Hence why I give a whole 10 minutes to confirm. My pet peeve is 'Are we still OK for...' I dunno. Are we? I am as I've committed to the slot but are you? And I understand its coz y’all like playing time roulette with girls who take whatever booking they get and work on a 1st come 1st serve, but, established girls/those of us with a set max daily apps, don't. And anyone who comes to me knows I allow up to 20 minutes running late time on account I'm OCD about my exact post sesh disinfecting method.

[MidlifeCrisis]

Ah, i see what you’re saying. Ask services before schedule.

Many girls here have just enough English to make appointments, and the subtleties of "considering an appointment" may be lost on them.

I suggest keeping the questions short and simple if it is a foreign lady that you haven't met.

[igor10]

Is ruff sex doin it doggy style?

roughly

[Stephanie]

Eh, nope. Not for those of us who work by app only/don't take last min appointments. It's why I then text 'I've booked you for (insert duration) at (time) (rate)' Then I give a 10 minute confirmation window - the app can be confirmed earlier in case they might be driving/won't get the chance to text, but never outside my 10min window. 1 min after confirmation time, I've already made other plans. No joke. Hence why I give a whole 10 minutes to confirm. My pet peeve is 'Are we still OK for...' I dunno. Are we? I am as I've committed to the slot but are you? And I understand its coz y’all like playing time roulette with girls who take whatever booking they get and work on a 1st come 1st serve, but, established girls/those of us with a set max daily apps, don't. And anyone who comes to me knows I allow up to 20 minutes running late time on account I'm OCD about my exact post sesh disinfecting method.

For me it is not a booking until ::

Me : “Oh that’s great , should I put you down as a booking so ?”

Him : yes please

Me : alright , so what is your name please ? And your number ?

(( ^^^ all that is just ‘unnecessary’ formality - could say Any name ; I already have the number off the phone ,

but it is the process for His side to solidify his intent )) : a few stumble here lol : usually time wasters .

Me : Excellent , thank you : so we’re on for X day / Y time for a Z long appointment .

Him : yes , that’s it

( if it’s more than a day or two ahead I’d ask for a check in day before our meeting )

if it’s same day >>

Me : perfect . So I’d kindly ask you to please text me One Hr before our meet to confirm ,

and for detailed directions : I am just nearby XYZ landmark . / and here I’d give parking details .

Him : yes , I will .


^^^ THEN it is a booking . Idle tire kickers and fantasist , time wasters or

unorganized spur of the moment types cannot follow through .

They don’t have , don’t get a booking .


// obviously if it’s same day booking with a few hrs’ notice / one hr notice , the whole process

is much more dynamic and expedited lol .

But it all takes no more than a minute