AmyTantraMassage (15-11-23), Dieve (30-11-23)
Totally agree with Amy.
I am pretty open minded but if I find out a woman I am attracted to has a dick, then doesn't matter if she is the most gorgeous or feminine human being walking in this planet, the fact she has a dick is a big "no no" for me.
If you like "women" with dicks, then you simply love cocks. End of it.
AmyTantraMassage (15-11-23)
I find women attractive.
I do not find men attractive, at all.
I find a woman with a strapon attractive.
I find a trans woman with a dick attractive, although I've never indulged in that.
I think it's the act of submitting to a woman with a dick shaped instrument or an actual dick that I find hot.
But is that just a fetish? It's not like that's exclusively what I do. I have regular, "vanilla" sex with women too and love that. Where that puts me on the spectrum of sexuality, I don't know. Bi-curious? But that implies I like guys but I don't (nothing wrong with liking guys, I'm not screaming "I'm straight though!").
Cock curious?
Dieve (30-11-23)
Ah, I didn’t understand you. I though you meant that by reducing the gender of the transgender person to having a dick or not and merely being attracted to the dick part of them is fetishising the person (and so, not seeing gender as “having a dick” and being attracted to a transgender person would not be fetishising).
Being attracted to a trans woman with a penis but not when she no longer has 1, yes. Because you're aware she's trans and have it in your head you only want dick coz it's attached to a woman. Whereas if you're not aware and you get turned off by the peen, then you're just hetero norm and are only attracted to females(mother's egg fertilzed with a female sexed sperm-sex assigned at fertilisation) not women (which can include males transitioning/transitioned to women).
This has become such a big problem for loads of transwomen who are now afraid men won't want them anymore once they fully transition. Case in point with this thread. Because once they lose the penis, said men no longer want them. On account the dick was the attraction, not their gender.
Bi men hiding behind transwomen, objectified them and not seeing them as women but rather males who look like women and have a dick and being turned off once that dick is transitioned to a vagina.
Dieve (30-11-23)