Erection goes with condom, cure?

[patpz]

Hi all, every time the condom comes out I lose my erection, at this stage its a mental barrier i think any suggestions for getting over this?
Thanks

[ford pefect]

Happened to me a few times also, not always though, lucky enough the ladies were able to oblige with hj.
not sure of any cure maybe the old blue tablet that can be bought over the counter now.

[Stephanie]

Hi all, every time the condom comes out I lose my erection, at this stage its a mental barrier i think any suggestions for getting over this?
Thanks

Practice at home while you’re playing with yourself .

Be consistent ; before you know it , it won’t be a problem anymore .



/ stroke yourself , when you get hard put on the condom ;

You may deflate : do it again . And again . And again . You’ll succeed eventually .

Stick with it .

[AmyTantraMassage]

It's a psychological issue. Use thin feel condoms see if it helps but, hate to say this line as it infuriate any female who's ever been to a doctor/hospital, it's all in your head. You need to change your mindset. It'll take a lot of hardworking.

[patpz]

Thanks so much for the replies, I will try all the suggestions, thanks again.

[FetishCherry]

Have seen this before. U not the only one. it's happening to many guys. Unfortunately, in almost all cases, I ended up with a hand job instead of something more enjoyable, even though I tried various approaches, such as using latex-free condoms, very thin condoms, etc.

Perhaps other men who have gone through or are going through the same situation can offer much more helpful advice than escorts.

[patpz]

It just feels good to chat about it actually, I know it’s all in my head as I have no problem without them, I think it’s related to some performance issue or something, I sort of go, niw it’s on here we go, you better keep it up…oh no, it’s going… 🤦*♂️ you get the idea, 😜

[JaakHammer]

I had the same problem when I first started out, I could always put on a condom at home but when I was meeting someone new it just added to the nerves, would be up and just go down straight away which never happened with girls I met outside of here (w/o condom)

I took cialis initially to see if it helped the mental block and it absolutely did, after a few times I eventually met up with an escort without taking anything and went in with the confidence that I’d already done it a few times now and it was fine. Only other advice I could give is ask the girl if she can have the condom out of the packaging and ready on the side and just plenty of foreplay so that it’s fully hard when the time comes.