Dryish humping

[prp]

I had an experience with a masseuse recently were she seemed to rub herself against my genitals. She had underwear on, whereas I was naked

I was a bit alarmed. She was on top of me but lying horizontally rather than straddling me, so I couldn't really make out what the exact contact was. Saying that, that particular contacted lasted no more than 20 secs

I didn't want to be a jerk and ask her to stop, nor did I want to piss her off after by asking what sort of contact was being made

Anyway, I'm a tad worried about the usual concerns involving skin to skin contact

Advice, thoughts please. No smart arse replies please

[Irelandbeautyyy]

We have some magazine for teenagers in Czech…

Girls often ask if they could be pregnant if they didn’t have sex.

Did she have underwear on? She wasn’t straddling you? So how?

[AmyTantraMassage]

I had an experience with a masseuse recently were she seemed to rub herself against my genitals. She had underwear on, whereas I was naked

I was a bit alarmed. She was on top of me but lying horizontally rather than straddling me, so I couldn't really make out what the exact contact was. Saying that, that particular contacted lasted no more than 20 secs

I didn't want to be a jerk and ask her to stop, nor did I want to piss her off after by asking what sort of contact was being made

Anyway, I'm a tad worried about the usual concerns involving skin to skin contact

Advice, thoughts please. No smart arse replies please

Skin to skin contact like the actual massage in itself, b2b or what? Also, if you're ever uncomfortable over something, speak up. Nm being seen as a jerk. Rather that than stress yourself over the what if.

Personally, I like to make it seem like it's sex when I do b2b massage. I had 1client panic and say not only did he not want sex as he had a gf, but how dare i go raw on him lmao. Ah, fun times. A perfectly placed hand can make it feel like penetration.

Back to your issue, vags are constantly wet. Dry humping can still be an exchange of body fluids especially for you. So make sure to make it known you're not comfortable.

[IAmLIAm]

I can't find a quick and easy link to post so you can take this info and the do a little Google searching to verify.

The overall odds of having any transmission while even semi-clothed are very, very...very low. Even skin to skin transmissible STDs (herpes, HPV and syphilis) would need open or at least compromised sores (now, these may or may not be visible {especially in low lighting}). If you what to be completely put at ease, go get tested (that's the only way to know for sure).

Also, don't be afraid to express when you're uncomfortable (I know, easier said than done). This one took me awhile to work out too, but most girls are going to understand/respect your wishes and if they don't you'll know not to return.

[irishjp]

Skin to skin contact like the actual massage in itself, b2b or what? Also, if you're ever uncomfortable over something, speak up. Nm being seen as a jerk. Rather that than stress yourself over the what if.

Personally, I like to make it seem like it's sex when I do b2b massage. I had 1client panic and say not only did he not want sex as he had a gf, but how dare i go raw on him lmao. Ah, fun times. A perfectly placed hand can make it feel like penetration.

Back to your issue, vags are constantly wet. Dry humping can still be an exchange of body fluids especially for you. So make sure to make it known you're not comfortable.

A little off topic but I’d love to try one your massages

[f1 away]

I think some baby oil need
Great for the skin

[GiaBruni]

First of all, you are not a jerk if you ask someone to stop. Consent is crucial and it is *your* time, and consent works both ways.

Second, if she was wearing underwear and you’re worried about herpes or other skin contact disease transmission, the chances are very low.

I’m sorry you’re worried and that you felt like you couldn’t ask her to stop or for more reassurance regarding STI status.

You can always ask us about our status, last time we got tested (and make sure yours is frequent too) - just don’t ask stigmatising questions like “are you clean”.

Hope this helped x

[ford pefect]

I had a great happy ending with a masseur involving body oil, her hand and her thigh, it felt like I was in her p@@sy while I was nowhere near , it was good

[prp]

First of all, you are not a jerk if you ask someone to stop. Consent is crucial and it is *your* time, and consent works both ways.

Second, if she was wearing underwear and you’re worried about herpes or other skin contact disease transmission, the chances are very low.

I’m sorry you’re worried and that you felt like you couldn’t ask her to stop or for more reassurance regarding STI status.

You can always ask us about our status, last time we got tested (and make sure yours is frequent too) - just don’t ask stigmatising questions like “are you clean”.

Hope this helped x

Thank you. Sweet of you. Thanks to the other repliers too, including Amy