Basic service question.

[philipkntz]

So, I've visited a lady in a Thai place a few times, I feel comfortable with her and she gives a fairly good massage and extra is available but expensive.
I usually stand to attention durin the massage, but don't get highly aroused as I don't find her attractive and I've never availed of her extra service, just enjoyed the massage and usually tip 10 euro on her standard 1 hour fee.
Visited her yesterday, near the end of the massage she again offered extra, I declined, asked her to do my feet.
She complied but said I was hard work, that I obviously enjoyed the massage because I got an erection, and that I should tip her at least twice my normal tip because she gave me erection.
Anyone else ever have an experience like this. I'm not going to name the lady or the place, but been mentioned on here a few times.

[TonyB]

Lol
I have recently had several escorts insist I gave them a tip, even though they were paid for what they did.

I said this here.
My point was I decide who to tip and I base this how I feel about the service I received.
In her case she was pushing me out the door after 15 minutes and didn't deserve a tip.

One actually snapped €20 from my hand when paying her.
I was a regular customer and haven't gone back since.

The amount of absolute shite I had to read here, labelled miserable and mean and God knows what else.

You'll probably get a medal

[PhilPhilPhil]

So, I've visited a lady in a Thai place a few times, I feel comfortable with her and she gives a fairly good massage and extra is available but expensive.
I usually stand to attention durin the massage, but don't get highly aroused as I don't find her attractive and I've never availed of her extra service, just enjoyed the massage and usually tip 10 euro on her standard 1 hour fee.
Visited her yesterday, near the end of the massage she again offered extra, I declined, asked her to do my feet.
She complied but said I was hard work, that I obviously enjoyed the massage because I got an erection, and that I should tip her at least twice my normal tip because she gave me erection.
Anyone else ever have an experience like this. I'm not going to name the lady or the place, but been mentioned on here a few times.

I guess there's 2 sides to this:

1) If she advertises 'normal' massage then she should be happy to provide 'just' that service and happy with any tip.
2) If 'normal' massage is mostly a front then she's losing out on money massaging you if most clients are there for the extra.

Simple solution for her is to refuse your booking if that's the issue.
If she takes your booking she should be happy with the price agreed.

Maybe she incorporates 'sensual' elements to the massage expecting it will result in arousal and you taking up the extra, which is a grey area.

[bigmango]

You should tip who & when you want - I seldom tip - I am a mean bugger

I occasionally tip massage providers in shops if their service is very good because of how little they are likely to earn from the encounter.

[Airbusdriver]

So, I've visited a lady in a Thai place a few times, I feel comfortable with her and she gives a fairly good massage and extra is available but expensive.
I usually stand to attention durin the massage, but don't get highly aroused as I don't find her attractive and I've never availed of her extra service, just enjoyed the massage and usually tip 10 euro on her standard 1 hour fee.
Visited her yesterday, near the end of the massage she again offered extra, I declined, asked her to do my feet.
She complied but said I was hard work, that I obviously enjoyed the massage because I got an erection, and that I should tip her at least twice my normal tip because she gave me erection.
Anyone else ever have an experience like this. I'm not going to name the lady or the place, but been mentioned on here a few times.

I'd be fairly pissed off getting a horn during a message and leaving the place without relief. She cant be THAT bad if you're standing to attention! I would look to be finished off in those circumstances.

[PhilPhilPhil]

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One actually snapped €20 from my hand when paying her.
I was a regular customer and haven't gone back since...

That's basically theft, definitely wouldn't give her anymore business after that, jaysus!

[Stringman]

Basic is shared with the handler, they keep the extras. That's why.

Bit rude from her asking for tips. If her nipples were aroused should she pay you then. Lol.

[philipkntz]

I'd be fairly pissed off getting a horn during a message and leaving the place without relief. She cant be THAT bad if you're standing to attention! I would look to be finished off in those circumstances.

Hey. I get a horn easily. And almost always during a masage. I've had to learn to ration my affections and how to differentiate between a swelling and true lust.

[AmyTantraMassage]

So, I've visited a lady in a Thai place a few times, I feel comfortable with her and she gives a fairly good massage and extra is available but expensive.
I usually stand to attention durin the massage, but don't get highly aroused as I don't find her attractive and I've never availed of her extra service, just enjoyed the massage and usually tip 10 euro on her standard 1 hour fee.
Visited her yesterday, near the end of the massage she again offered extra, I declined, asked her to do my feet.
She complied but said I was hard work, that I obviously enjoyed the massage because I got an erection, and that I should tip her at least twice my normal tip because she gave me erection.
Anyone else ever have an experience like this. I'm not going to name the lady or the place, but been mentioned on here a few times.

You k ow that all she gets from looking after you is the tip right? Places that do extras, all the massage money goes to the shop. So for your 1hr she gets 'paid' that tenner only.

[AmyTantraMassage]

Basic is shared with the handler, they keep the extras. That's why.

Bit rude from her asking for tips. If her nipples were aroused should she pay you then. Lol.

That's not how it works. I worked in massage parlours for years. If its an extras location, she only gets the extras and tips.