Relationship with escort

[Irelandbeautyyy]

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Here we go again. Didn't you learn anything the last time this topic came up. Apparently we're incapable of being loved because we're sex workers which is a JOB �� if that's the case yous are basically saying clients don't love their wives/partners. Practically the same thing is it not? Anyway you're opinion is irrelevant since you only have a "driver".... I rest my case ��

I learnt. I learnt there is a nonsense to try to discuss here with people who simple doesnt have any interest to discus in polite way. Anyway just a question if you mentioned it…do you have a feeling their wife is in same stage like we are? Does she offer this kind of company? In fact i dont expect your answer as its very clear. Anyway i really spoke about it in past with so many people, there was only one man who said he would have a zeroo problem with it as its some fetish for him and it excites him to imagine how his wife is fucked by strange guys. Next important thing, we all are absolutely different, hundred people, hundred opinions and its great for every forum untill people talk with respect each other.

[BIGUY99]

What about swingers.

Swinging is a lifestyle choice for a couple, a once a month bit of fun not the same at all.

[FetishCherry]

Swinging is a lifestyle choice for a couple, a once a month bit of fun not the same at all.

Well ...fuck is fuck. lifestyle or paid is the same when someone put his cock in your wife pussy. I was replaying to the post regarding the jelousy

[FetishCherry]

Exactly! Lots of cucks out there who get off on having their gal screwed right in front of them!

You are too quick to judge. Just because something seems unacceptable, disgusting, or inconceivable to you based on your mentality and upbringing doesn't mean that others feel the same way. Something that may seem acceptable or normal to you may be considered wrong or disgraceful by people with different mentalities and perspectives. Don't forget that many people, especially women, consider visiting an escort to be a disgusting and degrading thing while u might not consider this something so bad .

In the past, being gay was considered disgusting and a disease in my country and perhaps even here. But people have become more open-minded and accepting, realizing that we are not all the same, we are very different, and they are not seen as negatively as they were before.

People are different, mentalities are different. In my opinion I think it's okay to be an escort, but to another woman, it may be inconceivable. The same goes for the husbands/boyfriends/partners of escorts. Don't judge what you don't understand.

I know at least three cases right now that come to my mind quickly, where escorts entered into relationships with clients and even more, got married. One of them even married a German billionaire who was featured in Forbes magazine. But before getting married, they were friends, boyfriend and girlfriend, and she worked as an escort. Surely, he didn't want free sex as insinuated here, being in a relationship with an escort, and I don't believe he needed any of her money as someone else suggested. The man was and still is a billionaire in euros. He simply respected her freedom to choose what she wanted to do and didn't impose "stop this job now." Eventually, she left London with him, they moved in together, got engaged, and she stopped working, but for half a year, they were lovers .

I don't like people who rush to judge. And yes, we also deserve to be loved as Sarah said , and we also deserve to have someone who offers us something much more precious than just a physical encounter for an hour: love and support. Just because u guys wouldnt want to love a lady who do this job not means others cant love us!

[FetishCherry]

Swinging is a lifestyle choice for a couple, a once a month bit of fun not the same at all.

I couldn't edit my post so I,m adding here: SO u just said u can't be jealous when is a lifestyle and your wife get pleasured by other men and doing it for ''fun'' but u get jealous when is she doing as a job and there is no pleasure just money? U guys make no difference between sex for pleasure and sex for money I see. It's a HUGE difference. HUGE. I know one thing: if I would be the man i would be more jealous knowing a guy made my wife cum at the party and she enjoyed him, rather than knowing my wife just got paid for a handjob or pussyjob lol .

[IrishSarahBarra]

I learnt. I learnt there is a nonsense to try to discuss here with people who simple doesnt have any interest to discus in polite way. Anyway just a question if you mentioned it…do you have a feeling their wife is in same stage like we are? Does she offer this kind of company? In fact i dont expect your answer as its very clear. Anyway i really spoke about it in past with so many people, there was only one man who said he would have a zeroo problem with it as its some fetish for him and it excites him to imagine how his wife is fucked by strange guys. Next important thing, we all are absolutely different, hundred people, hundred opinions and its great for every forum untill people talk with respect each other.

You shouldn’t underestimate how hurtful it is for other ladies to hear “it’s not love”. Of all the things they’ll be protective over…

[BIGUY99]

Well ...fuck is fuck. lifestyle or paid is the same when someone put his cock in your wife pussy. I was replaying to the post regarding the jelousy

You’re wrong, swinging is a choice made by two people, both enjoying it.
Totally different from one heading out to have sex with strangers while the other sits home on their own, just my two cents

[NataCream]

You little dirty hypocrite guys You cheat on your wives but judge those who choose to love and stay with us. What about those who choose to stay with you? Oh wait, they are unaware of your actions. So we're better than you because our partners know our job only you are the ones heading to have sex while those faithful to you stay home.

[rockonallnite]

I knew this type of thread will resurface in one way or another...escort relationships 2.0, here we go again...

I have been punting on an off for more than 30 years...not proud about it, have to say, but I have learnt a couple of things on the way.

I have developed a very strong friendship with an escort. I met her first time 2 years ago, she didn't have much English but we spoke the same language so that is how it started. I do visit her as an escort from time to time,and I pay her fee, but we also do other things as friends...I don't mixed the 2. How do I do that I don't know. I am very open minded, not many people are like that.

We whatsapp each other on a regular basis, and she told me she likes me a lot like a friend, and she said she would even consider a relationship wit me, but I am too much of a slut!! (very ironic, is'nt it ). She invited me to her country too.

Is it love?, I don't think so...too simplistic to put a label on it...
I know of other similar stories were escorts met clients, they were very rich and they even eloped...I guess money was the driver there and maybe not love...who knows, but it did happened.

Last month I had to go to Dublin airport and she offered me to stay in her apartment for free. In the end the days got mixed up, turns out we left to the airport on the same day.
She is seeing another guy too, I am ok with that, I know I am a client at the end of the day...she also gave me freebies in the past too.

Long story short, we ended up in Dublin, I cooked for all of them including her other escort friend, had a laugh and the following morning she drove us to the airport. We chatted all morning until her flight was ready to go. Then I went to take my flight and went home. Fucking hilarious story.
She is supposed to be coming to my town soon. I will probably show her around.

She was in a toxic relationship before, it was not easy for her...a controlling freak he was...

This industry is difficult for escorts , at the end of the day we all are different, I don't judge people for their actions, There is a an ulterior motive for escorts to do what they do and punters for vising them too.
Life is too short to worry about things we can not change!!.


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seize the day, here today, gone tomorrow! make the most of it and stop worrying about it.

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H.D. Thoreau

[NataCream]

I haven’t been in a relationship with a sex worker but this is the way I see it …..It is a job as Sarah pointed out and it comes down to your (the man’s) ability to not get caught in stories of jealousy . Jealousy is your insecurity, your story of ‘I’m not good enough, he’s better in bed than me he’s got more money and a bigger mickey he’s taller ‘ etc, bullshit . It is just a story and you don’t have to believe it, Could you trust and respect your partner (and yourself) enough to understand that just because she has sex for work doesn’t mean she doesn’t only want to be with YOU. Can you also accept that from time to time she may even enjoy the sex, or not, and that that still has nothing to do with you, that doesn’t mean she doesn’t respect and love you and isn’t committed to you . Everything is possible

Is just a job, trust me is no pleasure in it , just money. As retired escort I can say this. What pleasure can be when me as 19yo Had only visits from 50+ guys older then my father. Now come on guys be realistic, dont think your skillful tongue can ever replace a good body of a young boy very sexy . Is just Money , no reason our partners to be jealous , and on who to be jealous ???