Relationship with escort

[FetishCherry]

You’re wrong, swinging is a choice made by two people, both enjoying it.
Totally different from one heading out to have sex with strangers while the other sits home on their own, just my two cents

Of course, the other one stays home because she goes to work not for pleasure. Pornstars don't take their husbands with them when filming and u don't take your wife with u when u go to work. One is a job the other is fun for both like u said so is normal to go together when they are going to have fun. But I was talking from the point of view of the guy who is jealous. A jealous guy will not make the difference between his wife having sex for money or having sex for fun, sex will be sex nothing more. The poster said no one in 10 thousand will stand jealousy so I gave the example of guys who are not jealous of their wives to have sex with other guys: swingers. And u replied only because both enjoy they are not jealous but if she goes to work and he stays home then he is jealous. Did I understand wrong?

[Ryankelvin]

My experience; for what it’s worth.
I had the most fantastic 2 years or so in a “ relationship “ with an escort , it was special, don’t think it can be called love , it was just 2 people that had a fantastic understanding and friendship. we clicked really well and enjoyed each other’s company.
It can be difficult for everyone, but I got unbelievable reassurances about the separation of work and personal life .
I never felt it was fair to get free appointments, so we had separate arrangements financially , which worked really well.
We remain friends, it ended because I genuinely felt she deserved much better than me in every way .
It broke my heart stepping back , but I felt it was better for both of us ,
It’s nice now to just occasionally message and chat about life .

[igor10]

I'll share my thoughts , well aware that are only personal and sure this topic has been discussed plenty in the past , but I am still bit new here so ....

I have been browsing around the wonderful and tricky world of escorting/lap-dancing for a very long time , met a lot of wonderful ladies and loved them all (how can u not love a woman , for a reasonable amount of time) . When it comes to the dilemma of having a relationship with an escort I always think that We all watched and probably loved "Pretty Woman" , but that was a movie

I have dated for few month a strippers (we liked each other , maybe it was love who knows ) and I had no issues with her job (but everyone its different) and it ended not because of jealousy but simply because life choose 2 separate paths for us

20 years ago a friend of mine fell for an escort and she fell for him , few months later they got married and they are still together now (fair play , I dont think I'll last 20 years with my wife , although I am not far off ) , but she retired before their marriage and I know for a fact it was not easy for him being with her and love her while she was still working . But the thing is I dont think she liked the job so it was not too hard of a choice to retire , he was not loaded by the way , just a regular job and she decided to be a normal average couple with my friend , likely more what she wanted for her life at that stage

So my point , its possible ? Anything is possible , once both party involved have clear in mind what they want in life ( not an easy one ) and they are ok with what the other person do and want , at the end its a relationship like many others out there , its just starting in a less conventional way

But I have a question for the lovely ladies here :

If you meet a person outside work and you get that butterflies in the stomach feeling how soon (if ever) you wait until you tell them what u do ? Please feel free not to answer or to send me where I deserve to go , I still love you all

[bananabox999]

At the end of the day the only opinion that matters are the 2 people in said relationship.
If they are okay with whatever arrangements they have going on then go for it, be happy.


I know its not something i'll have to worry about, i dont think i could sweep one of the beautiful ladies here off their feet
Not wealthy, kind of boring, average looking at best.. lol.. unless someone wants to retire to a nice plot of land and raise a bunch of crazy doggos and kittys.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

I'll share my thoughts , well aware that are only personal and sure this topic has been discussed plenty in the past , but I am still bit new here so ....

I have been browsing around the wonderful and tricky world of escorting/lap-dancing for a very long time , met a lot of wonderful ladies and loved them all (how can u not love a woman , for a reasonable amount of time) . When it comes to the dilemma of having a relationship with an escort I always think that We all watched and probably loved "Pretty Woman" , but that was a movie

I have dated for few month a strippers (we liked each other , maybe it was love who knows ) and I had no issues with her job (but everyone its different) and it ended not because of jealousy but simply because life choose 2 separate paths for us

20 years ago a friend of mine fell for an escort and she fell for him , few months later they got married and they are still together now (fair play , I dont think I'll last 20 years with my wife , although I am not far off ) , but she retired before their marriage and I know for a fact it was not easy for him being with her and love her while she was still working . But the thing is I dont think she liked the job so it was not too hard of a choice to retire , he was not loaded by the way , just a regular job and she decided to be a normal average couple with my friend , likely more what she wanted for her life at that stage

So my point , its possible ? Anything is possible , once both party involved have clear in mind what they want in life ( not an easy one ) and they are ok with what the other person do and want , at the end its a relationship like many others out there , its just starting in a less conventional way

But I have a question for the lovely ladies here :

If you meet a person outside work and you get that butterflies in the stomach feeling how soon (if ever) you wait until you tell them what u do ? Please feel free not to answer or to send me where I deserve to go , I still love you all

My personnal situation is very bad and probably sad as well in this question of meeting new people. But i always say i have my priorities in these years when iam very young so i had to choose between my personnal life or business. Its fair enough for me. I dont need to hear anything comforting. My life is very busy and i have zeroo time for new people, iam so happy if i can find some time for my family or my close friends. Of course sometimes i meet someone in street etc but i prefer to say iam already in relationship than make some stories. There are few guys who i meet regularly when i have to solve some things after coming home, some of them know my situation based on my lifestyle, but i wouldnt say there would be some serious interest. Its nice to talk, have some coffee or maybe sex, but lets say i have it enough in my job lol. Its my story probably for few years more

[BIGUY99]

My personnal situation is very bad and probably sad as well in this question of meeting new people. But i always say i have my priorities in these years when iam very young so i had to choose between my personnal life or business. It’s fair enough for me. I dont need to hear anything comforting. My life is very busy and i have zeroo time for new people, iam so happy if i can find some time for my family or my close friends. Of course sometimes i meet someone in street etc but i prefer to say iam already in relationship than make some stories. There are few guys who i meet regularly when i have to solve some things after coming home, some of them know my situation based on my lifestyle, but i wouldnt say there would be some serious interest. Its nice to talk, have some coffee or maybe sex, but lets say i have it enough in my job lol. Its my story probably for few years more

And who can argue with that?
Focus on earning when young
Plenty of time for relationship when you retire
Financially secure
If not broke why try to fix it
Wise lady 👌

[Tippguy21]

You’re wrong, swinging is a choice made by two people, both enjoying it.
Totally different from one heading out to have sex with strangers while the other sits home on their own, just my two cents

I may be understanding you wrongly, but swinging is a choice made by a couple and equally it is a choice by the couple for one of them to be a sex worker.

[MidlifeCrisis]

One theme when these threads come up is a.lot of people assuming others think and feel.the same way they do.

If you spend any time in this world one thing becomes clear very quickly - the things people are looking for varies hugely. Generalisations here will always be wrong. I have heard many stories of escort-client relationships from escorts, and I am certain of the truth of quite a few.

If something is happening that you like, and you think you can cope with it, go with it. Just don't fall into the trap of thinking you are in a relationship when you bring money each time you meet.

[Tippguy21]

One theme when these threads come up is a.lot of people assuming others think and feel.the same way they do.

If you spend any time in this world one thing becomes clear very quickly - the things people are looking for varies hugely. Generalisations here will always be wrong. I have heard many stories of escort-client relationships from escorts, and I am certain of the truth of quite a few.

If something is happening that you like, and you think you can cope with it, go with it. Just don't fall into the trap of thinking you are in a relationship when you bring money each time you meet.

Very true, a sexually open relationship is not for everyone and equally a monogamous is not for everyone

[BIGUY99]

I may be understanding you wrongly, but swinging is a choice made by a couple and equally it is a choice by the couple for one of them to be a sex worker.

Thread sidetracked a bit
Question was could a client have a relationship with escort after meeting her/him professionally
Personally speaking not a chance
I’m way too possessive/jealous and it would eat at me no matter how I tried to compartmentalise it
Probably guys who could deal with it but not me
Not saying it couldn’t happen