Weird lacklustre appointment.

[Mrbean76]

So this morning I met a lady who shall remain nameless, been on my radar for some time but first time meeting her.
She is attractive, has good english, bears a reasonable resemblance to her photos and has a mixed bag of reviews.
I was clean, polite, on-time. I paid the advertised price for 30 minutes, no haggling and i took a shower at her place.
There followed a very lacklustre performance and after about 20 minutes I knew I wasn't going to finish and just started to get dressed. She was encouraging me to go to the ATM and come back with more money.
I pointed out there was no point, that I just wasn't feeling the vibe from her, and she says,"What do you expect for 80 euro? That most guys just pay 100"
I put my hand in my pocket, pull out 40 euro and say that I brought that for a tip. She says, "Nobody pays 80 euro then leaves a tip." I point out that I paid 80 and was about to leave unsatisfied.
She plucked the 40 euro from my hand, pushed me back on the bed, saying "Now you can find out what you get for 120"
Completely different experience, she even accompanied me into the shower and made sure everything was well washed afterwards.
Are tips really that rare for lower priced escorts? I have my own rule that I round up to at least 100 if the service is good.

Some escorts don't make much of an effort if you're only staying for 30 minutes. I've experienced this myself and I don't visit again. I've also had some incredible 30 minute appointments and I see those ladies repeatedly and for a longer duration .

[TonyB]

What a load of complete bullshit

[AmyTantraMassage]

Exactly!!! Loads of girls don't understand it's not about the one off clients. It's about building a good client base and you never know who's gonna be a regular so... There's a difference between doing this as a means to an end over doing it because you genuinely enjoy it/are great at it and not just thinking it's 'easy' money.

Before I used to blame the clients for waving cash when paying do the girl knows they've more money on them. But now they're asking for revolut? Also means both will have each other's real names and all. No discretion or anything. And easier to get traced on both ends.

[AmyTantraMassage]

I like the sarcasm

I enjoyed how it went over a few heads. Had a good piggy laugh.

[igor10]

So this morning I met a lady who shall remain nameless, been on my radar for some time but first time meeting her.
She is attractive, has good english, bears a reasonable resemblance to her photos and has a mixed bag of reviews.
I was clean, polite, on-time. I paid the advertised price for 30 minutes, no haggling and i took a shower at her place.
There followed a very lacklustre performance and after about 20 minutes I knew I wasn't going to finish and just started to get dressed. She was encouraging me to go to the ATM and come back with more money.
I pointed out there was no point, that I just wasn't feeling the vibe from her, and she says,"What do you expect for 80 euro? That most guys just pay 100"
I put my hand in my pocket, pull out 40 euro and say that I brought that for a tip. She says, "Nobody pays 80 euro then leaves a tip." I point out that I paid 80 and was about to leave unsatisfied.
She plucked the 40 euro from my hand, pushed me back on the bed, saying "Now you can find out what you get for 120"
Completely different experience, she even accompanied me into the shower and made sure everything was well washed afterwards.
Are tips really that rare for lower priced escorts? I have my own rule that I round up to at least 100 if the service is good.

Interesting read Philip and thank you for sharing this

Personally I dont do 30 min meets as I dont have many occasion to punt and when I do I always go the 1h , doing my homework before hand and not minding the price much

In this specific occasion , in my humble opinion , what happened to you its not entirely related to money

I explain :

Obviously the money is a big factor here , but if we try to take this scenario out of the punting world , I'd say that your gesture got the lady intrigued and turned on and thats why she then showed you a good time

For example , lets imagine that you go for a date with a woman that you fancy physically (and she fancies you back) but during the date (dinner or whatever) there is no connection at all . Surely the date would end up with a cordial goodbye without probably seen each other again , but right before the goodbye you do or say something that impresses the lady and now she gets intrigued and turned on

The lady , likely in my opinion , would then changes her mind and the date would probably end in a totally different way and tone

Basically what I am trying to say is that you got her turn on and , for a man point of view (punting or not punting) , the key to have a great date/meet with a woman is to get her intrigued regardless of how good looking you are

Get a woman turn on (and by turn on I dont mean just horny) and you win her heart

[philipkntz]

Thank you Igor, I certainly had that a few times in my punting career, but I don't think it was the case this time, this lady pleasured me with enthusiasm, she wasn't chasing her own pleasure. In hindsight, it was more like she decided that I was a client she wanted to meet again. I just promoted myself from man bastard by the fact that I was about to walk away and not ask for money back.
She spoke that way about others that expected all of her favourites but haggled her rate.

[volvicwater]

Interesting read Philip and thank you for sharing this

Personally I dont do 30 min meets as I dont have many occasion to punt and when I do I always go the 1h , doing my homework before hand and not minding the price much

In this specific occasion , in my humble opinion , what happened to you its not entirely related to money

I explain :

Obviously the money is a big factor here , but if we try to take this scenario out of the punting world , I'd say that your gesture got the lady intrigued and turned on and thats why she then showed you a good time

For example , lets imagine that you go for a date with a woman that you fancy physically (and she fancies you back) but during the date (dinner or whatever) there is no connection at all . Surely the date would end up with a cordial goodbye without probably seen each other again , but right before the goodbye you do or say something that impresses the lady and now she gets intrigued and turned on

The lady , likely in my opinion , would then changes her mind and the date would probably end in a totally different way and tone

Basically what I am trying to say is that you got her turn on and , for a man point of view (punting or not punting) , the key to have a great date/meet with a woman is to get her intrigued regardless of how good looking you are

Get a woman turn on (and by turn on I dont mean just horny) and you win her heart

But it is related to escorting and money.
'What do you expect for 80e'.

Your scenario is valid, just not in this circumstances

[philipkntz]

Regarding "What do I expect for 80e?
It was my first time meeting this lady who has a mixed bag of reviews. I see 80 euro as an amount of money that I'm willing to walk away from if an appointment turns sour. It's an opportunity to meet an escort and see if I want to meet her again, works both ways, she also has the opportunity not to answer the phone next time I ring.
Most of my first appointments are half hour, sometime I've booked for one hour first time, if the lady comes highly recommended or is a regular on the forum that I've decided I just want to meet.

[volvicwater]

Regarding "What do I expect for 80e?
It was my first time meeting this lady who has a mixed bag of reviews. I see 80 euro as an amount of money that I'm willing to walk away from if an appointment turns sour. It's an opportunity to meet an escort and see if I want to meet her again, works both ways, she also has the opportunity not to answer the phone next time I ring.
Most of my first appointments are half hour, sometime I've booked for one hour first time, if the lady comes highly recommended or is a regular on the forum that I've decided I just want to meet.

I'm on your side here Phil, regardless of how you perceive things.

For someone to say that, very unprofessional.

[Airbusdriver]

She's a wrong one. There are plenty of nice genuine girls here who are professional in their work. Not this one. Would avoid and spend my money elsewhere.