Provider's Location - Access

[bigmango]

You arrive at the door of your provider's apartment block at the appointed time & are about to phone her when someone opens the door and leaves it open - do you enter
(OR would you wait until you had contacted the provider first.)

This happened to me earlier today and I phoned her in the lobby when there was nobody else around - she went ballistic
Her problem was that she had not given me the door code, So I was not who I said I was.

I had used the same phone over two days to exchange 6 or 7 texts with her about the booking

My question is - Would you enter the building, or would you wait until you had contacted the provider first.

Comments appreciated from both punters & providers - thanks,

[bananabox999]

Oh thats a tricky one. You dont want to look out of place with someone holding the door but you probly shouldnt be ringing in the hallway either.

Maybe in future ring from the car and have door code sorted in advance? Probaly shouldnt be hanging around long out front anyway.

[AmyTantraMassage]

Contact her. But how could she not give you the code if you're outside her building? Personally I text building details before you leave your car coz I don't want you on you phone walking to my building. But should you get I'm, you gotta text her. You CANNOT be outside her door without her knowing you're there. My clients have to walk in like they live there and they can't do that unless I know they're in the building.

If you're a 1st timer especially with the raids, you come in without me texting you my details you might as well walk back out and go home. Because no thanks. Most girls need to see you on intercom video if a 1st timer. For all they know, 5 of you came in and who know what yall will do to her. If you're a repeat, as I said above text her that you're in and take the stairs so she has the door open for you. 1st timer go in then pretend you left something in your car (pat your pockets, softly swear, idc but don't go in unless she was indiscreet enough to call you with instructions and you're on the phone to her so she knows you're in.

Above all, don't walk to the building with no info ffs. Especially if it's a block with a few working apartments because you're making it obvious. Nm her, people are obviously gonna know why YOU are there.

[IDF2]

You arrive at the door of your provider's apartment block at the appointed time & are about to phone her when someone opens the door and leaves it open - do you enter
(OR would you wait until you had contacted the provider first.)

This happened to me earlier today and I phoned her in the lobby when there was nobody else around - she went ballistic
Her problem was that she had not given me the door code, So I was not who I said I was.

I had used the same phone over two days to exchange 6 or 7 texts with her about the booking

My question is - Would you enter the building, or would you wait until you had contacted the provider first.

Comments appreciated from both punters & providers - thanks,

I'm sure by your post it was just a lack of judgment. But it was not cool.

Honestly, I would not go into anybody's home/place of business without them knowing. Sure even my family knows they will get no answer from me outside my gaff if they don't announce themselves.

[IDF2]

On a serious but kind on/off-topic.

Nobody should be answering their front door to anybody if they do not know who it is.

In the age of instant communication, there is no reason to expose yourself to random callers who only bring bad news or want your money.

The elderly should be especially cautious not because they are dumb. But because this is a different way of thinking.

[JennyIrish]

I totally understand where she's coming from, youre best to always follow the ladies directions than do your own thing.

If it were me and a new client rang telling me he was inside my apartment complex I'd immediately think 'what. How the hell did he get in?' and 'oh shit is he just wandering around drawing attention?'

Plus she might not have have been fully ready, not showered or dressed and she's panicking that she's not ready and you're wandering around the building!

So simple mistake on your part but it really is important to follow directions precisely from the lady!

[176x]

Depends if its lashing rain and you want to get in and stay warm and dry, then ask the first person passing if they know where she lives, head on up to get ya lights knocked out when she opens the door

Real answer is no......follow the protocol as instructed, that's the way it works.

[lol brb]

I wouldn't even approach the door until I had the code, even if asked to call when at the door ill always be at a discreet distance.

I'd never just walk in, you never know who might be there..

[Lighthearted2022]

I sympathise here because what's he supposed to do - thanks for holding the door open mate, but I'll stand out here for a bit first?

In one of my first meetings the girl wouldn't give me any details beyond my next 2 minutes movements - and kept saying to ring back when I got to 'x'. I had headphones in so it would have been easier to just stay on. Even at the door I was to wait for her to call me back. I don't think I'd do any of that now - was really green then.

I can understand the caution when its a first-time meet, but that kind of movements really draws attention to the punter & by extension to the girl.

[Lighthearted2022]

1st timer go in then pretend you left something in your car (pat your pockets, softly swear, idc but don't go in unless she was indiscreet enough to call you with instructions and you're on the phone to her so she knows you're in.

Ok - that's what should have happened. When you're anxious it can be harder to think straight!