Fighting self doubt

[rebelscouse]

A thread from earlier has stuck with me and has gnawed away me because of issues I had with bullies and people who put others down in the workplace. Unfortunately for it rings so many bells to mention due to these people destroying my self belief and causing me to the steps I can never stop regretting and force me to fight every single day, hour, minute and second to prove that I’m good enough to do my job even though I have colleagues who know I can do the job blindfolded but I have to prove to myself that I can do it because of bullying sons of bitches I have to battle to even get through the door. I believe courage to prove to myself that I’m better than them gets me through the working day but I know this will seem trivial to some but I hope others can relate and know that’s they’re not alone in the fight against self doubt.

[westerner04]

Don’t Stop Believing.....

[Mr Sweet Guy]

A thread from earlier has stuck with me and has gnawed away me because of issues I had with bullies and people who put others down in the workplace. Unfortunately for it rings so many bells to mention due to these people destroying my self belief and causing me to the steps I can never stop regretting and force me to fight every single day, hour, minute and second to prove that I’m good enough to do my job even though I have colleagues who know I can do the job blindfolded but I have to prove to myself that I can do it because of bullying sons of bitches I have to battle to even get through the door. I believe courage to prove to myself that I’m better than them gets me through the working day but I know this will seem trivial to some but I hope others can relate and know that’s they’re not alone in the fight against self doubt.

Great post Rebelscouse and never let doubters put you down..
As I to have to keep proving myself to people in work as some just take dislike to
me no matter what I do..

But just keep doing your job to your best Rebelscouse and people like that are jealous..
Because it obvious they see you as threat to them and try to bully and belittle you..
Keep head up mate and keep rising above your doubters..

[davidob555]

I had an economics lecturer in college who dedicated one full lecture to bullying. It is still one of the most powerful memories I have of my education. Talk to people you can trust, you'd be amazed in the wisdom that's right beside you sometimes.

[beautyaddict]

A thread from earlier has stuck with me and has gnawed away me because of issues I had with bullies and people who put others down in the workplace. Unfortunately for it rings so many bells to mention due to these people destroying my self belief and causing me to the steps I can never stop regretting and force me to fight every single day, hour, minute and second to prove that I’m good enough to do my job even though I have colleagues who know I can do the job blindfolded but I have to prove to myself that I can do it because of bullying sons of bitches I have to battle to even get through the door. I believe courage to prove to myself that I’m better than them gets me through the working day but I know this will seem trivial to some but I hope others can relate and know that’s they’re not alone in the fight against self doubt.

Bullying is a scourge and increasingly so. You are to congratulated on getting through it, on not becoming one yourself (often happens) You have used the bullying as an engine for change and motivation.

I sometimes use a rockets flight as a analogy for how we use negatives to drives us to better things . When a section of the rocket is done it detaches ( in your case the asshole bullies)and the rocket continues its flight , maybe for you its how to see this, its got you this far , you can continue improving without them .

They those bullies have served their purpose , you dont need them now, you have used them , time to put them where they belong, bin them . easier said than done, I know but a thought for you to design the next few years around perhaps , and how they will hate it , you using them then deposing of them ,

[inconnu]

I saw you handing that Donald Tramp fellow his ass on a plate recently.Really inspired me.One day I'll be able to stand up to all these bullies too.Keep up the crusades.

[176x]

A thread from earlier has stuck with me and has gnawed away me because of issues I had with bullies and people who put others down in the workplace. Unfortunately for it rings so many bells to mention due to these people destroying my self belief and causing me to the steps I can never stop regretting and force me to fight every single day, hour, minute and second to prove that I’m good enough to do my job even though I have colleagues who know I can do the job blindfolded but I have to prove to myself that I can do it because of bullying sons of bitches I have to battle to even get through the door. I believe courage to prove to myself that I’m better than them gets me through the working day but I know this will seem trivial to some but I hope others can relate and know that’s they’re not alone in the fight against self doubt.

You lost the game even before it kicks off ffs.

[Wolverine]

A thread from earlier has stuck with me and has gnawed away me because of issues I had with bullies and people who put others down in the workplace. Unfortunately for it rings so many bells to mention due to these people destroying my self belief and causing me to the steps I can never stop regretting and force me to fight every single day, hour, minute and second to prove that I’m good enough to do my job even though I have colleagues who know I can do the job blindfolded but I have to prove to myself that I can do it because of bullying sons of bitches I have to battle to even get through the door. I believe courage to prove to myself that I’m better than them gets me through the working day but I know this will seem trivial to some but I hope others can relate and know that’s they’re not alone in the fight against self doubt.

You should really look into getting work elsewhere. Nobody should have to deal with that.
Had a similar experience myself. Reskill if necessary and move on.

http://www.citizensinformation.ie/en...workplace.html

[LozzoD79]

A thread from earlier has stuck with me and has gnawed away me because of issues I had with bullies and people who put others down in the workplace. Unfortunately for it rings so many bells to mention due to these people destroying my self belief and causing me to the steps I can never stop regretting and force me to fight every single day, hour, minute and second to prove that I’m good enough to do my job even though I have colleagues who know I can do the job blindfolded but I have to prove to myself that I can do it because of bullying sons of bitches I have to battle to even get through the door. I believe courage to prove to myself that I’m better than them gets me through the working day but I know this will seem trivial to some but I hope others can relate and know that’s they’re not alone in the fight against self doubt.

Sorry to hear, this is a common issue and unfortunately you need to work out how to deal with it. I have been subject to bullying at work on several levels from work colleagues to bosses and even general corporate bullying where the overall company approach is to batter good people into submission.

If you can overcome them, it makes you stronger and better. It can be tiring at times but never give up on your goals and beliefs. Thats when you beat them.

We all need a little support from now and again.

[DonaldTramp]

I saw you handing that Donald Tramp fellow his ass on a plate recently.Really inspired me.One day I'll be able to stand up to all these bullies too.Keep up the crusades.

Yes indeed ,the noblest Knight of them all,purer ,whiter and more gallant than Sir Galahad has certainly clipped my wings.
Bravo Sir Addict of Beauty!