Fighting self doubt

[beautyaddict]

A thread from earlier has stuck with me and has gnawed away me because of issues I had with bullies and people who put others down in the workplace. Unfortunately for it rings so many bells to mention due to these people destroying my self belief and causing me to the steps I can never stop regretting and force me to fight every single day, hour, minute and second to prove that I’m good enough to do my job even though I have colleagues who know I can do the job blindfolded but I have to prove to myself that I can do it because of bullying sons of bitches I have to battle to even get through the door. I believe courage to prove to myself that I’m better than them gets me through the working day but I know this will seem trivial to some but I hope others can relate and know that’s they’re not alone in the fight against self doubt.

Bullying is a scourge and increasingly so. You are to congratulated on getting through it, on not becoming one yourself (often happens) You have used the bullying as an engine for change and motivation.

I sometimes use a rockets flight as a analogy for how we use negatives to drives us to better things . When a section of the rocket is done it detaches ( in your case the asshole bullies)and the rocket continues its flight , maybe for you its how to see this, its got you this far , you can continue improving without them .

They those bullies have served their purpose , you dont need them now, you have used them , time to put them where they belong, bin them . easier said than done, I know but a thought for you to design the next few years around perhaps , and how they will hate it , you using them then deposing of them ,