Originally Posted by
bedders1
thinking of becoming one?!
Look, if you really have an interest in BDSM and things fet, you would be far better off joining Fetlife (its like facebook for fetishests)
Then you go along to munches (just meetings in normal clothes in a pub with like minded folk)
Prove you can behave yourself and you can then attend flogging workshops and all out kink events like shiny rubber ball and Libertine (anything goes, watch or participate in live floggings, spankings, even mmf sex...but by STRICT invitation)
There is a very vibrant and healthy fetish scene in Ireland but it is a small community and so respect and safety is paramount.
Want to learn how to safely tie someone up with rope or flog someone with cat o nine tails? Join fet (they even have a DJ at such events)
I do wish EI would stop publishing these 50 shades of grey type articles as the real thing is very different and we shouldnt be encouraging people to just have a go themselves because thats how injuries and worse happens
if you have any questions, feel free to pm me