Exaggerated Compliments or Borderline Rudeness

[Clueless]

When I meet a girl and think she is beautiful I tell her that - no need to go overboard - sometimes I have been awestruck about their beauty and maybe gush over them. But hey this is good is it not!

[Curvaceous Kate]

Your lovely!
Your grand !
Your a trooper!
Your nice!
Your the greatest!

These are bland - would any of these upset you?

Compliments don't upset, it is the intention behind them that concern. Are they being said to butter up? To curry favour? Or because the person really does think you are the bees knees and feels compelled to tell you? One of them is a positive and the other two are self gaining.

[Curvaceous Kate]

When I meet a girl and think she is beautiful I tell her that - no need to go overboard - sometimes I have been awestruck about their beauty and maybe gush over them. But hey this is good is it not!

At least you have waited to meet them before gushing over them. Feels weird (to me) when someone tells me I'm beautiful when we have not met face to face. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but how do you behold someone you have never physically met?

[Doozer]

I think every single escort receives compliments from guys in a daily basis.

Because I am a snob, doesn't excite me to hear how beautiful I am , but for others might be very nice thing hear and by any means I have something against it.

I got texts from guys I have seen and not in the past. I ignore those I haven't met , I will reply to the others within a limit.

Don't think there is guy to beg me to visit his area. If he is that interested , he is always welcome to Dublin.

I do not have time or willing to engage in texts and "love stories" , how much they want me and so on. Don't know how others do it and why. But that is just me , of course.

When I visit towns/cities the guys interested in spending time with me, will make an appointment , have fun and move on.

Keep it professional.

You seem like a bit of a downer lol

[Doozer]

At least you have waited to meet them before gushing over them. Feels weird (to me) when someone tells me I'm beautiful when we have not met face to face. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but how do you behold someone you have never physically met?

Ah come on Kate

The the 3 cm x 2 cm avater you have up is enough lol

[Curvaceous Kate]

It must be from all those parties with clients. Keeping it professional must be very hard when you are socialising for free with them.

[wolfie]

I've been told my best feature is my ass. Not sure if that's a compliment though

[Danny2011]

Compliments don't upset, it is the intention behind them that concern. Are they being said to butter up? To curry favour? Or because the person really does think you are the bees knees and feels compelled to tell you? One of them is a positive and the other two are self gaining.

On a related note, I imagine a certain amount of cynicism (for lack of a better word) might be a job requirement for escorts, to help deal with time wasters, sort out clients they may decide not to meet etc. Would you agree?

If so do you think the 'cynicism' is required before someone starts this job or does it develop because of this job? And does it then extend into other parts of an escorts life?

[Doozer]

On a related note, I imagine a certain amount of cynicism (for lack of a better word) might be a job requirement for escorts, to help deal with time wasters, sort out clients they may decide not to meet etc. Would you agree?

If so do you think the 'cynicism' is required before someone starts this job or does it develop because of this job? And does it then extend into other parts of an escorts life?

Preety sure that cynisim appears from life in general and is not a requirement for an escort
They may hone their cynisim from their line of work but is that any different from anyone else?

[Danny2011]

They may hone their cynisim from their line of work but is that any different from anyone else?

Good point I suppose if your job involves selling dodgy cars or something you would become cynical about buying a used car