Happiness a fickle thing

[Westsidex]

or a job with the samaratians. . . . . . . . . Cut out those repeat callers.

Do they pay a good hourly rate? Ladooooooooooo will be fine.

hes the ladoooooo,
Westside

[Dub Lad]

Maybe I'll never be happy, if I find it I hold onto it but even then I'm still trying to find happiness incase that person goes, it's ridiculous the stuff that goes on in my head like really weird, like why is it that I can give great relationship advice to my friends and see things objectively but when it comes to my own I have this self destruct thing, I have to ruin it, I can never be happy with what I have, what is that about and what's even more fucked up is I recognise my flaws in my character yet! I still can't control my emotions and keep it all in check. The mind and body is a powerful thing, it can be your best friend our your worst own enemy.

I'm off to comfort eat and have ben and jerrys icecream, what flavour? caramel chew with the taste of my bitter sweet tears.

[Westsidex]

Maybe I'll never be happy,

.

You wont if you choose to be ladoooo.

life is all about choice lado,
Westside.

[warmcome]

i'm sorry to hear of your distress Dub Lad. take extra good care of
yourself as you get through this buddy.

[Dub Lad]

You wont if you choose to be ladoooo.

life is all about choice lado,
Westside.

Westie ffs how can I choose to be happy when I have no control over it, your happiness isn't within us it's with other people, they have ALL the power! Think about it!

[samlad]

Westie ffs how can I choose to be happy when I have no control over it, your happiness isn't within us it's with other people, they have ALL the power! Think about it!

That's bad advice.... making Westie think about it, that is.

[Stephanie]

Westie ffs how can I choose to be happy when I have no control over it, your happiness isn't within us it's with other people, they have ALL the power! Think about it!

Not true xx

Your happiness lies within you. No one can make you happy. Only You can make you happy.

If you look to others to make you happy, you will always be left longing and unfulfilled, disappointed.

Find serenity and fulfillment in your own heart, in your own life, and when you have so much of it that it overflows,

you can share and in giving, bring more happiness upon your self..

Heartbreak is heartbreak : painful and lonesome. It will pass. But it IS a choice to be happy. xxx

..

[Mousey]

It's not things in our environment that causes consequences for us, DubLad, it's our beliefs about them that do. All stress is caused by us trying to change something that has already happened, and can't be changed.

See?

[UKHeather]

I don't like to hear of sadness

If you find ways to be happy with yourself and your life (it may mean making changes) without looking to others for your happiness you will attract more positive people into your life too

[Dub Lad]

Not true xx

Your happiness lies within you. No one can make you happy. Only You can make you happy.

If you look to others to make you happy, you will always be left longing and unfulfilled, disappointed.

Find serenity and fulfillment in your own heart, in your own life, and when you have so much of it that it overflows,

you can share and in giving, bring more happiness upon your self..

Heartbreak is heartbreak : painful and lonesome. It will pass. But it IS a choice to be happy. xxx

..

oh my gosh this, i was walking to work and was.reading this and i actually stopped and caught myself, I do look to others to make me happy its like those people are my security blanket, im always afraid i font matter to people as much as they matter to me. I'll tell you where I am. I want to sleep alot because the more awake i am the more i have to think about this pain i cannot concentrate on anything Ibalways feel like i want justg gas cry, i still call the number even though its discontinued, this thing has consumed me its like i cant breathe