I've just emailed a lady from here through her EI page. I noticed the 10 post rule, but didn't get any warning that my message to her wasn't delivered.

I don't think I've got 10 posts up here as yet.

How do I know my message got through, and how do i find out if she's replied?

sorry for the silly noob questions, but iId really hate to miss a session with this lady.