I have to be honest here and wounder and ask, just what you are getting out of visiting TS/TV escorts so?
You say you have been with non escort transsexual & transvestite women. That is entirely understandable as your attracted to the woman and not her genitalia.
Good for you. Unfortunately I will never be in a position to meet transgender women socially
But I can't help feeling that you are a bit confused about what you want sexualy.Maybe I'm wrong but I can only speak for myself & my experiences.
The first few times I met a transgender escort, what I wanted to do was very limited. I would even say beyond what I wanted to do everything else
disgusted me.
But the women that I met were so understanding & patient and I had such a great time In kept on going back for more and more.
And now every inch of a TS/TV's women's body's give me pleasure.
Maybe this is totally left field of what your post was on about I
or maybe I gave you something to think about I
Do whatever makes you happy.