Im out of here..........

[royaler]

Escorts are escapism for many. Escapism does not solve the fundamental problems. It's your real life you need to concentrate on and sort out before anything will get better.
Good luck x

Do you think its possible to deal with ones 'real life' and still see an escort. Alot of the advice that is given about dealing with your life is to be nice to yourself???

[royaler]

I know what you all mean but I'm going to retire I loved all the encounters I fecked up a wee bit and got into the emotional side with one which I never wanted to happen but I've had some 16 months of what many couldent see in a porno now I'll take that with me and put it in the wank bank and revisit it in my head from time to time but seriously I'm quiting and sort out the normal part of my life, I have to say being the Sperminater is fun.......

Fair play to you mate! Its amazing in the last half hour reading through all this thread ....... and you sound fantastically positive in this one! Well done!!

[royaler]

I know on part of me does be upstanding from time to time .: lol

Said like a true Doctor!!!

[mellors]

Do you think its possible to deal with ones 'real life' and still see an escort. Alot of the advice that is given about dealing with your life is to be nice to yourself???

Theres other ways of being nice to yourself. You sound like you've started to sort your own life out. If you're still a mass of emotional nerve endings might be an idea to stay away for awhile. Having said that seeing an escort can be very therapeutic, probably best to listen to whoever said earlier about going to see different girls rather than repeat visits.

[sperminater]

Jeasus just looked at my settings 1025pts man that's friendship !!!

[royaler]

Theres other ways of being nice to yourself. You sound like you've started to sort your own life out. If you're still a mass of emotional nerve endings might be an idea to stay away for awhile. Having said that seeing an escort can be very therapeutic, probably best to listen to whoever said earlier about going to see different girls rather than repeat visits.

Thanks for the advice Mellors - its gonna be hard to stay away from the one i'm thinking of though!
Anyway on another subject - I love the Hendrix pic.......... and you can take it that means a lot, because I'm a huge Gallagher fan!!

[UKHeather]

Do you think its possible to deal with ones 'real life' and still see an escort. Alot of the advice that is given about dealing with your life is to be nice to yourself???

It depends who you are and why you are seeing escorts. If it is purely sex and you can compartmentalise, then yes. If it is also for company and comfort and it's also something you think about afterwards, then no, I don't believe you can.

[UKHeather]

I would just like to add to this..

It is not just guys who have trouble adapting. Escorts also have 'real lives' with everyday stuff and relationships going on. This job can interfere with that if you are not careful.
You guys are meeting a very limited number of ladies. The amount of men we meet is way higher. Many of those men are absolutely lovely.
I am a very emotional person and it took me a long time to learn how to switch myself off after working. We all know how we can click with certain people, and these such clients were fulfilling a need in me as much as I was for them.
For the first 3 years or so I could have told you the name of every client, what he looked like, what we did and where I met him. Not now..lol

[sperminater]

Hay Heather that's what I ment with my post last week you lovely ladies sacrifice a lot also and I suppose were all similar in that sence and I said you are wise in the way people think escorts know men better then they know themselves and thanks for your words of wisdom x

[doodlebug]

Now thats dedication Heather, LOL. But I understand what you are saying, it is easy for clients to forget that escorts have hearts and feelings and fall for men as easily as some of us fall for them. Difficult to divorce emotion from sex for most people, myself included, and a further testament to the work you ladies do so well. Thanks

I would just like to add to this..

It is not just guys who have trouble adapting. Escorts also have 'real lives' with everyday stuff and relationships going on. This job can interfere with that if you are not careful.
You guys are meeting a very limited number of ladies. The amount of men we meet is way higher. Many of those men are absolutely lovely.
I am a very emotional person and it took me a long time to learn how to switch myself off after working. We all know how we can click with certain people, and these such clients were fulfilling a need in me as much as I was for them.
For the first 3 years or so I could have told you the name of every client, what he looked like, what we did and where I met him. Not now..lol