Watching the clock

[dave1dave]

I can't really imagine a lady going to see someone on an outcall for a first date.
Most ladys I know will only go on an outcall with known clients. ( I could be completely wrong of course )
So the guy should know the ladys style of date.

I think the lady really should have speeded things up if she knew that she had to leave at a certain time.
Actually incall or outcall the same scenario could apply, as in the guy could bring champagne and chocolates ect..

FFS if a lady waited for me to make the first move I'd never make it past the introductory chat. lol

[Sam Spade]

Responsibility lies with both parties, and certainly a degree with the lady.
Some clients don't like to rush into the main event, so rely in part to the professional to ensure the liaison develops naturally.

For example a couple of my regular ladies like to have a drink and chat before retiring to the boudoir. I am happy to do this, as although the chat can last half an hour, I know the remainder of the appointment will be un-rushed and left for me to 'clock-watch'. It does lead to name-calling, but it works.

I believe there should be an element of trust between both parties to ensure the time is managed effectivily, ensuring the appointment reaches it's natural conclusion.

There is nothing worse than being told that your time is up when you have not got passed the kissing stage,
and yes, it has happened to me!

[ksteve]

Responsibility lies with both parties, and certainly a degree with the lady.
Some clients don't like to rush into the main event, so rely in part to the professional to ensure the liaison develops naturally.

For example a couple of my regular ladies like to have a drink and chat before retiring to the boudoir. I am happy to do this, as although the chat can last half an hour, I know the remainder of the appointment will be un-rushed and left for me to 'clock-watch'. It does lead to name-calling, but it works.
I believe there should be an element of trust between both parties to ensure the time is managed effectivily, ensuring the appointment reaches it's natural conclusion.

There is nothing worse than being told that your time is up when you have not got passed the kissing stage,
and yes, it has happened to me!

mark, can you explain this pls.

[ksteve]

I can't really imagine a lady going to see someone on an outcall for a first date.
Most ladys I know will only go on an outcall with known clients. ( I could be completely wrong of course )
So the guy should know the ladys style of date.

I think the lady really should have speeded things up if she knew that she had to leave at a certain time.
Actually incall or outcall the same scenario could apply, as in the guy could bring champagne and chocolates ect..

FFS if a lady waited for me to make the first move I'd never make it past the introductory chat. lol

Nice one !!

I would agree. I think the lady has a responsibility to move things along,provided of course that the client is happy with this, if she is aware that the guy may have lost his sense of time. There is nothing wrong with an escort being pro-active, in fact I would go further, it shows that she is interested in the client and just doesnt want to let the clock run down. Not being pro-active sets the wrong tone and in soccer terms can be a bit like keeping the ball in play but only around the corner flag !!