Erectile dysfunction

[anon361]

Thanks a million Jimbop, TBH is have found the same problem a few times now, the mind is willing but the body isn't. I don't really know why but I never have a problem with my partner, always rock but with some escorts even ones I'm really attracted to the fecker either won't go hard or goes hard but as soon as the condom goes on he goes limp and sometimes puts up a serious fight to go hard again.
I have been thinking of going to the doc but how do you explain you don't have any problems with your partner, only when you visit escorts or on the odd occasion with your mistress

[Violette]

ED is a lot more common than most would think. And a subject that most men are embarrassed to discuss, I must say it is amazing to see this admitted so freely on the boards. Kudos to you for being so open.

[Doozer]

Fair play to you jimbo but since you said you only have this problem with escorts and not the missus I'm surprised your on viagra as you probably don't have a true sexual dysfunction. Same with anon to. What ye have could be psycchological not medical so ye don't have to take it

Ain you could always ask the doc that you don't always have the problem so he might find you an alternative do the wife won't know about it

[JAMESCORK]

Fair play to you jimbo but since you said you only have this problem with escorts and not the missus I'm surprised your on viagra as you probably don't have a true sexual dysfunction. Same with anon to. What ye have could be psycchological not medical so ye don't have to take it

Ain you could always ask the doc that you don't always have the problem so he might find you an alternative do the wife won't know about it

Good point Doozie.. It was only since I started visiting Escorts that the problem arose. I put it down to nerves I suppose. Never and still dont use drugs at home... strange huh.. I feel I am now nearly using Viagra as a recreational drug.... if that makes sense...

[Doozer]

Good point Doozie.. It was only since I started visiting Escorts that the problem arose. I put it down to nerves I suppose. Never and still dont use drugs at home... strange huh.. I feel I am now nearly using Viagra as a recreational drug.... if that makes sense...

If is only since you saw escorts then psychically there is nothing wrong with you which is why I was suprised you were prescribed it

Now I assume you didnt mention escorts and I am assuming you told him that its not an ongoing problem.

[JAMESCORK]

If is only since you saw escorts then psychically there is nothing wrong with you which is why I was suprised you were prescribed it

Now I assume you didnt mention escorts and I am assuming you told him that its not an ongoing problem.

Of course I mentioned Escorts, I recommended Ebony Amber to him....ffs..

No ...I didn’t mention Escorts, and I described my failings exactly as I have here, but replacing ESCORT with WIFE.

Physically there is nothing wrong with me? Ok if I visit an escort without taking a drug I WILL get an erection but may find it losing interest after some time. Now this depends on the girl, my mood and physical well being. Pop a pill and I can go for round #2. Where would you put your money...lol

[Doozer]

Of course I mentioned Escorts, I recommended Ebony Amber to him....ffs..

No ...I didn’t mention Escorts, and I described my failings exactly as I have here, but replacing ESCORT with WIFE.

Physically there is nothing wrong with me? Ok if I visit an escort without taking a drug I WILL get an erection but may find it losing interest after some time. Now this depends on the girl, my mood and physical well being. Pop a pill and I can go for round #2. Where would you put your money...lol

Thats what I am saying
Your doc probably shouldnt have prescribed it to you if its not an ongoing problem
Just another case of a doctor presribing for a problem when there probably is no need to. Dont mean to soudn harsh here, Im know ut worked out well for you which is good but in general it seems like bad practice

[Violette]

Of course I mentioned Escorts, I recommended Ebony Amber to him....ffs..

No ...I didn’t mention Escorts, and I described my failings exactly as I have here, but replacing ESCORT with WIFE.

Physically there is nothing wrong with me? Ok if I visit an escort without taking a drug I WILL get an erection but may find it losing interest after some time. Now this depends on the girl, my mood and physical well being. Pop a pill and I can go for round #2. Where would you put your money...lol

Devils Advocate Moment here: Suppose when with the wife you don't need to get a second pop in as you know she will be around at a later date, she is the wife after all. But with an escort since it is a paid encounter and possibly a one of, you feel the need to get more bang for your buck? Compound that with being some what advanced in age, you need a bit of chemical help in order to achieve the second erection in an hours appointment. It is just a thought.

[Sman]

Yeah must hold my hand up too its happened a couple of times now both with very beautiful and well known escorts. Im guessing but i put it down to a combination of age (im in my forties too) and the ready availability of sex with beautiful women, well as part of a commercial transaction in my case.

Im guessing here but i suggest it may occur more often with the seasoned punter rather than the infrequent / new one for the above reasons.

Kudos JC for bringing attention to it.

[ksteve]

Excellent post JC !

I don't see anything 'amazing ' about 'admitting ' ED on an open board-- you would swear that you were guilty of some heinous crime or love of unnatural practices !! I understand that ED is very common indeed and therefore is something that guys should have no difficulty whatsoever in discussing. I am not an expert on the subject but it strikes me that if a guy fails to acheive an erection with one lady but then has no difficulty doing so with another lady or indeed his partner that he prolly does not have ED and his difficulty on occasions may be down to a whole host of reasons.

Many guys think that they should be automatically turned on when in an intimate situation with a lady and if you are not then there must be something wrong with you. We are not in fact machines and personally there are times when I am fully in the zone and times when I am not. Particularly, with the stresses of the last few years in this country , I have personally found that this has had an impact on my 'performance' and I think thats more than understandable and on occasion I have been happy to avail of a little booster to help me along. So what ? It's only a friggin' tablet. I take tablets for headaches and hangovers too !!.

Look, I doubt whether most escorts give a fiddlers about the clients erection in general. As professionals though, they want to give a good service and success for them is to see their client enjoying what they offer , and getting a decent erection and then climaxing in due course is evidence of this -- a job well done !! From the guy's point of view he wants this as well as he is spending his hard earned shekels but also,and I think this can be overlooked, he is actually anxious to show to the escort that he appreciates her and that she is indeed having the desired positive effect on him.

Men have traditionally and in my opinion somewhat stupidly, been slow to look after their health and to talk about it also. Women are light years ahead of us on this front -- they have no difficulty discussing and seeking advice from each other on issues affecting their health. We wait until we are grumpy old men and then become pre-occupied with talking about our ailments !! We need to wisen up and start looking after ourselves more and that includes discussion with each other.

Again, good post JC !