I'd say you've probably made a bad choice on your partners.
As soon as we were "allowed" to travel a bit further up north, I've been with 5 or 6 ladies within the last month and only been with one dud appointment where she used a toy and I got myself off with barely any contact.
Just chalk it down to experience and look forward to Michelle coming to your neighbourhood, if anything will restore your confidence it'll be that young lady.