Punting : My expectations versus reality

[Mrbean76]

Who am I and why am I posting this thread? I am a nobody, an average middle aged man. I'm posting this thread to share my experiences as a punter that's quite recently discovered the world of E.I. Trolls can email any responses or questions to askmyarse@gmail.com. I was aware of course that the website existed and throughout my marriage would occasionally have a look but had no intention of meeting anyone. When my marriage ended I arranged an appointment the next day with a certain French lady. I prefer to call escorts ladies as that's what they are to me first and foremost. I was very nervous but she put me at ease and I thoroughly enjoyed my first punt and booked another lady a few days later.

When I first started punting it was to meet beautiful ladies for no strings attached sex and it still is my primary reason. I never in my wildest dreams though expected to meet ladies that were so kind, compassionate, non judgemental and intelligent, I've met women that gave up professional careers to do this, many have degrees or are studying to finish their degree. Some ladies are from privileged backgrounds,some from poor families ,some from wealthy countries and some from poor countries,there is no stereotypical escort. The general population have no idea about sex work and punters, they seem to think all escorts are being forced to do it by criminals or are drug addicts. In my experience this couldn't be further from the truth, all the ladies I've met are independent hard working business women doing their best to earn a living in a society that looks down on them,this saddens me. I'm not going to get into the whole failure of the Nordic model and how it is supposed to help sex workers, it has totally failed any of the ladies I have spoken to about it. Things have gotten worse if anything since it was introduced. I've met dozens of ladies at this stage and a few many times and have gotten to know them quite well, I see our relationship as being a professional one but can't help but care and worry about their safety and future. I don't intend to punt for much longer, health issues might decide that. I'm 43 now,will I live another 43 years? probably not, the last 43 years flew by ,even if I live another 43 years that'll go even quicker, life is very short when you think about it like that. Anyway enough of my ramblings, punters keep on punting, ladies keep up the good work, no pun intended!! Hopefully in the not too distant future your profession will get the recognition and legalised status it deserves, stay safe and look out for one another.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Who am I and why am I posting this thread? I am a nobody, an average middle aged man. I'm posting this thread to share my experiences as a punter that's quite recently discovered the world of E.I. Trolls can email any responses or questions to askmyarse@gmail.com. I was aware of course that the website existed and throughout my marriage would occasionally have a look but had no intention of meeting anyone. When my marriage ended I arranged an appointment the next day with a certain French lady. I prefer to call escorts ladies as that's what they are to me first and foremost. I was very nervous but she put me at ease and I thoroughly enjoyed my first punt and booked another lady a few days later.

When I first started punting it was to meet beautiful ladies for no strings attached sex and it still is my primary reason. I never in my wildest dreams though expected to meet ladies that were so kind, compassionate, non judgemental and intelligent, I've met women that gave up professional careers to do this, many have degrees or are studying to finish their degree. Some ladies are from privileged backgrounds,some from poor families ,some from wealthy countries and some from poor countries,there is no stereotypical escort. The general population have no idea about sex work and punters, they seem to think all escorts are being forced to do it by criminals or are drug addicts. In my experience this couldn't be further from the truth, all the ladies I've met are independent hard working business women doing their best to earn a living in a society that looks down on them,this saddens me. I'm not going to get into the whole failure of the Nordic model and how it is supposed to help sex workers, it has totally failed any of the ladies I have spoken to about it. Things have gotten worse if anything since it was introduced. I've met dozens of ladies at this stage and a few many times and have gotten to know them quite well, I see our relationship as being a professional one but can't help but care and worry about their safety and future. I don't intend to punt for much longer, health issues might decide that. I'm 43 now,will I live another 43 years? probably not, the last 43 years flew by ,even if I live another 43 years that'll go even quicker, life is very short when you think about it like that. Anyway enough of my ramblings, punters keep on punting, ladies keep up the good work, no pun intended!! Hopefully in the not too distant future your profession will get the recognition and legalised status it deserves, stay safe and look out for one another.

Excellent and very honest post you put up
my friend

Life is indeed has good n bad time to it. But true , when you spend time with Professional Escorts. It take away the little worry or problem in your life.

You just go into place where you can enjoy company of Beautiful Lady , who personally out my league. (Can only speak for myself on that statement) and enjoy a fetish or fantasy you like to try out or act upon with the consent of the Lady.

Now you mention you tend to not punt distant future and your health issue I do understand Mate. But think of the Beautiful Ladies you met and ones you still to meet.I hope you reconsider on that one and keep punting till the end Mate

But true also , we will all one day stop punting and Professional Escorts will also move on to further their career. ( Miss you Blond Stunner Sexy Crystal , best looking Professional Escort I ever lay eyes on and met )

I totally agree on your statement also about meeting so many stunning Beautiful Ladies , knowing that it a Professional job. But when we meet a Lady and spend whatever amount of time we book with them.

We meet a Lady as you say from any background you describe. Which if we sit and listen to her for little time. You get to understand , which you feel compassion and care for them in friendly and professional way. Their is certain few Ladies I like and care for in professional way , which some have move on.

Now you got me thinking now , as life is indeed too short Mate. Which I am going to thanks you on that. I think and feel I got to meet them 2 Professional Escorts you recommend to me very soon I don't want to retire from punting yet , without seeing them two Beautiful Ladies

Cheers Mate for your thought. It certainly true you do meet wonderful , non judgemental , compassionate and indeed intelligent business Ladies.

Lastly to say if you can help in any small way , like time I had to get nail glue for one professional Escort and a bottle of orange juice for another professional Escort. It little thing like that , can put a smile on a Lady face and that is priceless for me

[funboy71]

Well said Mrbean76, very well said.

Who am I and why am I posting this thread? I am a nobody, an average middle aged man. I'm posting this thread to share my experiences as a punter that's quite recently discovered the world of E.I. Trolls can email any responses or questions to askmyarse@gmail.com. I was aware of course that the website existed and throughout my marriage would occasionally have a look but had no intention of meeting anyone. When my marriage ended I arranged an appointment the next day with a certain French lady. I prefer to call escorts ladies as that's what they are to me first and foremost. I was very nervous but she put me at ease and I thoroughly enjoyed my first punt and booked another lady a few days later.

When I first started punting it was to meet beautiful ladies for no strings attached sex and it still is my primary reason. I never in my wildest dreams though expected to meet ladies that were so kind, compassionate, non judgemental and intelligent, I've met women that gave up professional careers to do this, many have degrees or are studying to finish their degree. Some ladies are from privileged backgrounds,some from poor families ,some from wealthy countries and some from poor countries,there is no stereotypical escort. The general population have no idea about sex work and punters, they seem to think all escorts are being forced to do it by criminals or are drug addicts. In my experience this couldn't be further from the truth, all the ladies I've met are independent hard working business women doing their best to earn a living in a society that looks down on them,this saddens me. I'm not going to get into the whole failure of the Nordic model and how it is supposed to help sex workers, it has totally failed any of the ladies I have spoken to about it. Things have gotten worse if anything since it was introduced. I've met dozens of ladies at this stage and a few many times and have gotten to know them quite well, I see our relationship as being a professional one but can't help but care and worry about their safety and future. I don't intend to punt for much longer, health issues might decide that. I'm 43 now,will I live another 43 years? probably not, the last 43 years flew by ,even if I live another 43 years that'll go even quicker, life is very short when you think about it like that. Anyway enough of my ramblings, punters keep on punting, ladies keep up the good work, no pun intended!! Hopefully in the not too distant future your profession will get the recognition and legalised status it deserves, stay safe and look out for one another.

[westerner04]

Nailed it Mr B.

[FinnMickC00L]

MrBean and MrSweetGuy go head to head in the longest post stakes.
Damned if I'm reading any of it.

[ford pefect]

I thought punting was a lot seedier than it is ,maybe it was years ago with the street girls, but now it’s luxury with beautiful women

[Mrbean76]

MrBean and MrSweetGuy go head to head in the longest post stakes.
Damned if I'm reading any of it.

It's interesting to me that you didn't read the thread but for some reason feel the need to leave negative comments

[Ryankelvin]

Well said Mr Bean , I agree totally with everything u said I thought u were 76 not born in 76 Making me slightly older than u so

[Pblinder]

Not interesting at all——-
It’s because traditionally over the years Mr sweet guy is a complete pain in the hole on these threads, constantly commenting about his relationships with escort’s, how much money he spends, how the escorts desire him, how he know a ‘friend’ who knows secrets about escorts etc etc etc. along with his pigeon english it’s painful to read. Lately the tone has changed though and he is going for a self pity route, implying that he is uglier then other clients. A bizarre tactic and odd move.
Sometimes people have enough of this and leaves of negative threads, just like I am doing.
Then , like a child, he’ll start crying and get floki and moderators involved and make up stories that escorts are being disrespected and people aren’t being respectful on the threads. It’s comical.

It's interesting to me that you didn't read the thread but for some reason feel the need to leave negative comments