Hmm ok. I didn't realize that I might not be taken as seriously due to being new but that makes sense!
Haha in regards to the phone phobia it looks like I will have to get over it
We talked about looking for someone in the swinger scene, but are a little worried about stalkers, weirdos, and std's. I hope this doesn't sound silly but we are looking for a nice, classy and pleasant experience, without the potential baggage from the swinger scene. We're not interested in wife-swapping or large group things and my impression has been that there's not a lot of single ladies just out there looking for a couple to have a good time with.