Lack of Dommes or lack of clients?

[Curvaceous Kate]

There's a difference between being a hooker with a whip & a skilled practitioner - BDSM is an art form & imo the pleasure goes way beyond sex. I don't need to fuck a guys body, I fuck his mind

It is possible to be able to do both. (Not at the same time) and I'm sorry if I'm being easily offended, but it sounds like you have a lack of respect for 'hookers' in your statement there.

Fucking with a guys mind is not difficult. Wives do it every day

[Lady Constance]

It is possible to be able to do both. (Not at the same time) and I'm sorry if I'm being easily offended, but it sounds like you have a lack of respect for 'hookers' in your statement there.

Fucking with a guys mind is not difficult. Wives do it every day

Of course it's possible to do both & I don't believe I suggested otherwise. I was simply observing that there seem to be very few who exclusively dominate and wondered why that is, because it's quite different to the UK.

I have no issue with escorts - I know quite a few personally as friends and they no more belittle my skills than I belittle theirs. My point is, there is more to being a Domme than throwing a flogger or a paddle around and there are many activities that can be dangerous if not performed correctly. That said, I've met a fair few 'Dommes' in my time who would benefit from some tuition!

[Curvaceous Kate]

Of course it's possible to do both & I don't believe I suggested otherwise. I was simply observing that there seem to be very few who exclusively dominate and wondered why that is, because it's quite different to the UK.

I have no issue with escorts - I know quite a few personally as friends and they no more belittle my skills than I belittle theirs. My point is, there is more to being a Domme than throwing a flogger or a paddle around and there are many activities that can be dangerous if not performed correctly. That said, I've met a fair few 'Dommes' in my time who would benefit from some tuition!

Why do you assume that is what is happening? I was involved with BDSM years before I became a Sex Worker. I had friends that lived the life and gave me books that they used to start them off and I've seen it happen in many forms. In fact I probably have more background knowledge in BDSM than I do as a Sex Worker, as I've predominantly worked a lone. I believe many of the Dominatrix that are here at the moment are also well versed with what they are doing, with some coming from medical backgrounds etc.

Personally when I do domination it is more about mind games than pain. I get my enjoyment from that and I keep to the areas that I'm interested in, so I don't class myself as a dominatrix, but what I do I do with skill and knowledge. I don't see anyone who is wanting proper domination without first having a check list completed for instance.

When you say you don't belittle sex workers, that is good to hear, but maybe next time don't assume that a hooker doesn't know their left foot from their right foot and use the phrase 'I don't have to fuck them'. We don't have to either. We 'choose' to.

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[Lady Constance]

Personally when I do domination it is more about mind games than pain. I get my enjoyment from that and I keep to the areas that I'm interested in, so I don't class myself as a dominatrix, but what I do I do with skill and knowledge. I don't see anyone who is wanting proper domination without first having a check list completed for instance.


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That's kinda my point...and is wasn't directed at any individual, so apologies if you feel personally offended.

As for 'I don't have to fuck them' - no, you don't & I appreciate the choice is yours, but in all honesty an escort who 'chose' not to fuck clients, surely wouldn't get much in the way of repeat business, would they? Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that what most (not all) guys want from an escort?

[Curvaceous Kate]

That's kinda my point...and is wasn't directed at any individual, so apologies if you feel personally offended.

As for 'I don't have to fuck them' - no, you don't & I appreciate the choice is yours, but in all honesty an escort who 'chose' not to fuck clients, surely wouldn't get much in the way of repeat business, would they? Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that what most (not all) guys want from an escort?

With all due respect I think you are making a lot of assumptions about something you know very little about. Probably better to stick to the Domming.

We have a lot more to offer than just a hole and again your words imply that you can't see that.

As it happens I do have a client that I see regularly and we don't 'fuck'. He likes to pamper me and I like to be pampered.

I would quit when I'm ahead if I was you, or maybe get back to talking about what constitutes the perfect cock.

[omaguy]

I feel there is a lack dommes especiallyin northwest, im from omagh and is impossibleto get a proper Dom, some advertime Dom services and provide basics but not what a proper dominatrix provides, if I want sex I go out on saturday night, for me going to visit a escort is to get a particular service which really only a domme can provide, so please doms come visit omagh

[Curvaceous Kate]

I feel there is a lack dommes especiallyin northwest, im from omagh and is impossibleto get a proper Dom, some advertime Dom services and provide basics but not what a proper dominatrix provides, if I want sex I go out on saturday night, for me going to visit a escort is to get a particular service which really only a domme can provide, so please doms come visit omagh

Let's be fair, there are only 5 Escorts in Omagh total, so yes you are going to be limited and might need to travel to get what you need.