Visiting escorts as therapy

[Genie in a Bottle]

It can be bad therapy too, You visit the escort and youre on a high until its over, then your on a bit of a downer until your next visit.

[Curvaceous Kate]

It can be bad therapy too, You visit the escort and youre on a high until its over, then your on a bit of a downer until your next visit.

Do you get a bit of an adrenalin kick from the experience? If so that might account for the down feeling afterwards.

[robbie9]

i agree with this statement , i have heard of some cases where it stopped suicide so credit to the escorts!!

[Kaz]

Helped my anxiety. I'm now 14st too.

[Meursault]

It's certainly worked wonders for me. I have to keep telling myself I've triumphed over adversary.

It was to do with ridding myself of a block I had in my mind telling me that I was useless, impotent, not a real man. As I've stated elsewhere, love shyness (amongst other matters) pretty much crippled me when it came to approaching women. In certain ways, it ruined my life until fairly recently when I was able to turn things around.

It's strange seeing these "REAL MEN DON'T PAY FOR SEX" posters about town. I guarantee that, up until a year ago, they would have sent me into a downward spiral of self loathing that would have lasted throughout the day. I would have felt an accusatory finger pointing at me, with a voice saying "you don't even have the bottle to give it a go, how do you think they'd view you?"

Nowadays, I merely smile to myself.

no offense op but if you tie your self esteem to being wanted by anyone in life regardless of sex, you are not going to be happy in the long run. people are irrational and unpredictable. the best way to approach life is to be happy either way, as in be happy single and be happy in a relationship. depending on a relationship for your substance is playing with dice

[Wolverine]

no offense op but if you tie your self esteem to being wanted by anyone in life regardless of sex, you are not going to be happy in the long run. people are irrational and unpredictable. the best way to approach life is to be happy either way, as in be happy single and be happy in a relationship. depending on a relationship for your substance is playing with dice

wise words.

[ZVN60]

no offense op

I love it when people start sentences with this.

but if you tie your self esteem to being wanted by anyone in life regardless of sex, you are not going to be happy in the long run. people are irrational and unpredictable. the best way to approach life is to be happy either way, as in be happy single and be happy in a relationship. depending on a relationship for your substance is playing with dice

I'm more than aware of that. However, depression/love shyness isn't very logical. It comes and attacks when you least expect it. So telling me this is the case isn't necessarily going to help. You can't tell someone who's depressed to snap out of it. Doesn't work like that.

[Meursault]

I love it when people start sentences with this.



I'm more than aware of that. However, depression/love shyness isn't very logical. It comes and attacks when you least expect it. So telling me this is the case isn't necessarily going to help. You can't tell someone who's depressed to snap out of it. Doesn't work like that.

more than likely what you have is social anxiety. no such thing as love shyness.

[ZVN60]

more than likely what you have is social anxiety. no such thing as love shyness.

That's quite an assumption. What makes you think that? Bear in mind I have a full time job and two part time ones (all of which involve dealing with the public).

[Meursault]

Then you can put the boot on the other foot and say some guys will need therapy after visiting a few of us ladies….

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