Some of these cultures treat women like shit.They literally own the woman and she has no say in the marraige whatsoever.I know your not married to them but culture or otherwise alot of these ppl have being reared to treat woman bad without even realising it.They think its normal and ok to do this and it is in their culture.Money isnt much good if it costs you your freedom.
trust me on this one,
Westside.