Services offered

[Curvaceous Kate]

What is the point of having a list of services if no one actually sticks to them?

I've really had my eyes opened with recent threads where both Escorts and Clients have revealed that they indulge in non advertised services without prior consultation.

Not a matter of, asking if it's okay to do the non advertised service, but 'going with the flow'. How does a client know it is okay to do the unadvertised service if there is no discussion about it at any point and more importantly, having just done that with one Escort, what is to stop them doing it with another Escort, who may seriously not want to do the services not listed?

Surely it is better to list the things you enjoy doing, but stipulate on your advert that all services are at the lady's discretion, than to allow unexpected or unadvertised acts without consultation? Does that not just lead to confusion and worse still, creates bad practice that could upset another Escort?

All I can say, is no wonder so many clients are confused by what is offered and what they can actually have and what to expect. It is a minefield out there.

At this point I would like to say that all the services I have listed are available at my discretion. However, if it is not there, unless I invite you to do it, please take it that it is not to be done.

[anon361]

What is the point of having a list of services if no one actually sticks to them?

I've really had my eyes opened with recent threads where both Escorts and Clients have revealed that they indulge in non advertised services without prior consultation.

Not a matter of, asking if it's okay to do the non advertised service, but 'going with the flow'. How does a client know it is okay to do the unadvertised service if there is no discussion about it at any point and more importantly, having just done that with one Escort, what is to stop them doing it with another Escort, who may seriously not want to do the services not listed?

Surely it is better to list the things you enjoy doing, but stipulate on your advert that all services are at the lady's discretion, than to allow unexpected or unadvertised acts without consultation? Does that not just lead to confusion and worse still, creates bad practice that could upset another Escort?

All I can say, is no wonder so many clients are confused by what is offered and what they can actually have and what to expect. It is a minefield out there.

At this point I would like to say that all the services I have listed are available at my discretion. However, if it is not there, unless I invite you to do it, please take it that it is not to be done.

Hahaha, it was a good rant and then you fucked it up with the last statement, giving out that ladies offer services that aren't on their favs list, confusing the client, wondering how are they to know what's acceptable etc and then you turn full swing by answering your own question, IE the lady invites them and basically saying you do some services that aren't on your list at your discretion Sorry, it is a little funny you have to admit

[Hypatia]

I think the (quite clear) point is that a service may not be listed, but can be offered by the lady inviting it. This is a very different scenario than "Well, she didn't state this was OK, but things seem to be going well so I'll just try this..."

[Curvaceous Kate]

I think the (quite clear) point is that a service may not be listed, but can be offered by the lady inviting it. This is a very different scenario than "Well, she didn't state this was OK, but things seem to be going well so I'll just try this..."

Thank you, that is exactly the point I am trying to make.

[redone7010]

I`d just be happy if the escort provided the services listed rather than in many cases a "Sorry babe I don`t do that" after money has changed hands

[Dr. Ivory]

I think the (quite clear) point is that a service may not be listed, but can be offered by the lady inviting it.."

There is certainly a logical difference between she does exactly what it says on the tin and she likes to have her cake and eat it. Escorts on this thread are mixing the two. But does that make them wrong ? Don't really think so. If an escort who doesn't advertise anal inspects a guys equipment and thinks 'you know that's about the right size for anal .....' can anyone really tell her she has broken faith with all those guys who didn't get anal ? I grant that it looks incoherent . But its just human. Even escorts are human.

[Rachel Divine]

There is certainly a logical difference between she does exactly what it says on the tin and she likes to have her cake and eat it. Escorts on this thread are mixing the two. But does that make them wrong ? Don't really think so. If an escort who doesn't advertise anal inspects a guys equipment and thinks 'you know that's about the right size for anal .....' can anyone really tell her she has broken faith with all those guys who didn't get anal ? I grant that it looks incoherent . But its just human. Even escorts are human.

Indeed. Some will stick to what they advertise and do it in a mechanical way, pretending to love it, others will genuine enjoy and if you click, get more pleasure out of it.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Hahaha, it was a good rant and then you fucked it up with the last statement, giving out that ladies offer services that aren't on their favs list, confusing the client, wondering how are they to know what's acceptable etc and then you turn full swing by answering your own question, IE the lady invites them and basically saying you do some services that aren't on your list at your discretion Sorry, it is a little funny you have to admit

As it happens I don't, if it's not there I don't do it, but since everyone else seems to I was trying to appear to be less harsh by saying that if it is verbally or physically encouraged by the escort, as in she has given her consent, then at least it is given with consent and not just 'gone with the flow' which is full of confusing messages.

It's like the guys that have put their fingers on my bum hole. So many times I have had to ask them to stop and it really pisses me off. I actually don't like it. I wonder what makes them think it is okay to do that. Well... now I know why.

[Rachel Divine]

As it happens I don't, if it's not there I don't do it, but since everyone else seems to I was trying to appear to be less harsh by saying that if it is verbally or physically encouraged by the escort, as in she has given her consent, then at least it is given with consent and not just 'gone with the flow' which is full of confusing messages.

It's like the guys that have put their fingers on my bum hole. So many times I have had to ask them to stop and it really pisses me off. I actually don't like it. I wonder what makes them think it is okay to do that. Well... now I know why.

Funny. Did you ever thought is a turn on for him and perhaps the lady he was with previously enjoyed to have it done?

I hate to think some ladies take the business like a robot, do this and that, not allowed to do this and that from the start.

Go with the flow is the best policy, whatever is good for both, escort and client.

[tomlittle]

favourites i believe are only a guide and if the escort is comfortable with the guy why not offer something else if they both want it.
its no one's business only the Escort and client anyway and i sure some offer a little more but dont kiss and tell