When does sex with someone younger than your child/children become acceptable?

**Curvaceous Kate** · 05-09-12, 22:38

Today I refused a booking with a 19 year old. This is in light of my son turning 19 tomorrow and it feeling totally wrong and pervy to entertain someone of that age.

My question is... will I always feel that people the same age or younger than him are out of bounds, or does there come a time when it doesn't feel bad any more?

I know some of you out there are in a similar position or have been, so interested to hear your pearls of wisdom.

**doodlebug** · 05-09-12, 22:47

It is a good question Kate, my stock answer would always be that age is merely a number, but I can see the position you are in. I suppose that in this industry you must, as far as possible, seperate the real life from the work life. To pose a question back at you, when is it acceptable to sleep with your neighbours husband etc etc, the act of sexual liason in a fantasy escort world tends to blur acceptable or moral boundaries. So what in fact you are asking is merely one of a number of questions you could ask, and they all have the same answer in my opinion, it is not wrong if you are not acting as Kate the mother etc but acting as Kate the escort. Only my opinion.

**mymann** · 05-09-12, 23:00

Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

Today I refused a booking with a 19 year old. This is in light of my son turning 19 tomorrow and it feeling totally wrong and pervy to entertain someone of that age.

My question is... will I always feel that people the same age or younger than him are out of bounds, or does there come a time when it doesn't feel bad any more?

I know some of you out there are in a similar position or have been, so interested to hear your pearls of wisdom.

So Kate, What is the upper age limit,

Your Grandfathers age??? lol

**Morpheus** · 05-09-12, 23:05

A bit of a mind twister that Kate!!

I don't have kids, so won't ever be in such a situtation.

However, even if I did, I think I will always find young women (20's) attractive, so don't think my age would influence my decision.

**Banjaxed** · 05-09-12, 23:11

Discrimination! Is there an upper limit?

Personally I prefer ladies older than myself as they're much more attractive, intelligent, mature/sensible and experienced than anyone my age and perfectly restrain my youthful madness. I suppose there's a bit of educating, or maybe more like "house training", that needs to be done with a lot of us young'uns which some escorts would rather not have to bother doing and that's fine.

I understand the dilemma in your case however is a bit more complex, but I don't really know if there's a solution other than your current approach of a steadily rising limit.

**Sexy Fernanda** · 05-09-12, 23:12

when the person is over 21?it's a legal age at least....

**kerry lad in town** · 05-09-12, 23:21

Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

Today I refused a booking with a 19 year old. This is in light of my son turning 19 tomorrow and it feeling totally wrong and pervy to entertain someone of that age.

My question is... will I always feel that people the same age or younger than him are out of bounds, or does there come a time when it doesn't feel bad any more?

I know some of you out there are in a similar position or have been, so interested to hear your pearls of wisdom.

i can see where your coming from kate but there not many escorts older then me so it has to be younger.lol

**Curvaceous Kate** · 05-09-12, 23:59

My limit is 21 at the moment. It always has been, although one 19 year old sneeked in when I did an outcall once.

I think the slight difference between men and women (or myself at least) is that I tend to get maternal with lads that remind me of my son and want to help them sort their lives out and tell them I'm proud if hey are doing well lol. I sometimes get that with the 21 year olds, but usually after the event lol. I find that I am more attracted to men over 25 though, where as I used to be attracted to younger (and I'm talking about a year or two ago), so my tastes are continually changing too.

I've seen a young black chap walking around in Cheltenham the last few days. Once in a tee shirt and once in a suit. He looks very tasty and I think he is around 25. I have to remind myself that not all men like older women lol and put my tongue back in my head. Naughty me!

**Chutney** · 06-09-12, 05:25

I think guys pay lip service to escorts comfort zones and expect them to see all and sundry because 'its their job'.
I'm a big lad, aka a fat b*stard and the wrong side of 50 to boot! When I was punting, I always mentioned these and anything else I thought might affect the booking. I would rather the lady had some idea before hand and the option to decline rather then be put in a position where she may not feel able to give of her best.
And some have said that they don't actually enjoy bookings with larger gents. It is my problem after all, and I would rather be turned down then have a poor booking for us both.

**mymann** · 06-09-12, 06:34

Just curious Kate,
What do the figures under your posts signify ??
Are they by any chance the number of clients you saw each month for the past 30 months ?
You used have have some thing about the Phoenix and making things rise,

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