Difficulty in Cuming

[ChunkyJoe]

Doozer....its obvious I've a problem with him and ignoring him doesn't work if ppl are gonna quote what he says. But you know what nothing will be done so....fine I quit this fight like always. Never such thing as an impartial mod.

Joe out!

[Doozer]

Doozer....its obvious I've a problem with him and ignoring him doesn't work if ppl are gonna quote what he says. But you know what nothing will be done so....fine I quit this fight like always. Never such thing as an impartial mod.

Joe out!

joe , report whatever he posts.that offends.you and.it can be dealt with. otherwise it can be seen as a bit of banter

[anon361]

joe , report whatever he posts.that offends.you and.it can be dealt with. otherwise it can be seen as a bit of banter

Doozer, I was very upset when he told me to fuck off, I'm tellin ye, there was nearly tears

[Doozer]

Doozer, I was very upset when he told me to fuck off, I'm tellin ye, there was nearly tears

fuck off.ya navan.c#€ t

[very shy guy]

I think that I carry that whole Catholic sex guilt thing around with me. I find it harder to cum with someone I care about. You don't do those filty things with a good person that you love. Thinking about it, that's what probably got me into this scene in the first place.

They do have a lot to answer for EA,more than one grain of truth in what you wrote.

[n73]

Personally I stopped doing 1 hr appointments because I now can only come once in the one hour with the one girl but I can go straight to a second half hour appointment right next door and come a second time no prob ! What's that about ???

[Ray]

Dont know about that, i am 45 yo and fuck me it blows quicker then ever dude, i some cases i wish it was true lol!!!

Would it be true to say as a general rule that the older a man becomes the more difficult it gets to cum regularly?

[Mousey]

I think that I carry that whole Catholic sex guilt thing around with me. I find it harder to cum with someone I care about. You don't do those filty things with a good person that you love. Thinking about it, that's what probably got me into this scene in the first place.

It was the opposite for me, chum. Came all over the shop with girlfriends, but couldn't do much with strangers. Getting well over that hangup now thanks to the lovely laydeez of this site

[inbelfast]

Had a desperate problem with cumming in the company of anyone else until a couple of weeks back.
Went to the Doctor, a counsellor, books, dinternet, the lot.
This is the main reason I started going to escorts. Has a massive effect on self esteem.

Finally cracked it, 4 escorts in the last 2 weeks, 100per cent results.
Believe me, if you haven't finished the job with a woman for 5 years, cumming after 10 minutes is some joyous event... Already I am starting to learn how to put the brakes on...I am on top of the world.

Here's my self help guide:


If you have problems with ejaculation - no probs getting it up, no problems ejaculating when choking the chicken, but can't do it with a woman, ask yourself:
1. Are you overweight?
2. Do you smoke?
3. Are you unfit?
4. Do you wank all the time?
Make sure these answers are no. If not, you're wasting your time.
I lost 5 kilos, quit smoking and can now run 6k without dying.
Somehow stopped looking at porn and tearing the stomach off myself every day too.


Then I was set some visualisation tasks by the counsellor:
50 times a day (tick em off on a sheet) visualise yourself cumming. Not pornstar stuff, just finishing the job, and picture yourself being pleased with it, no matter how miserable the show looks. Keep this up for a week. Wear loose boxers that week.

Next, go to see an escort. Go for something nice and simple, maybe hand relief. (shameless plug here for maya sweet and her tantric hand massage, heavenly). When you feel that tension building during the event, THINK OF ANYTHING ELSE BUT CUMMING. (Breasts was what I thought of. There was a tremendous pair handy). Let nature take over.

After the first time, it becomes natural.

This is a distilled version of all the stuff I mentioned above.
Anyone wants specifics, pm me.
No shitehawks please and if you want to take the piss, do it on the boards where I can have a go back at ya.