Hitting it off x

[max california]

Funnily enough the client that I had the most amazing experience with was older than me, where I haven't dated anyone older than me in 12 years and he was bold and I normally go for guys with thick black hair. He was also a little over weight (only just) but he was so manly and broad I didn't care a hoot. It was him that I found mesmerising and for me the whole package worked. I'd probably not have looked at him twice if I had met him out on the street.

Roll on the tour

[Curvaceous Kate]

Roll on the tour

Oh dear the words 'rod' and 'back' spring to mind lol. Would I need to invest in a whip?

[max california]

Oh dear the words 'rod' and 'back' spring to mind lol. Would I need to invest in a whip?

I'll tell you if this week goes to plan

[UncleBob]

Oh dear the words 'rod' and 'back' spring to mind lol. Would I need to invest in a whip?

Ooh. Did someone just say one of the magic words?

[mikemorrison]

Another great thread Stephanie. I thought I knew what you meant, and then you clarified it. I have meet only a few ladies and all of them fantastic, but I can safely say that I have not 'clicked' in the Pretty Woman whirled wind style you mention. I agree with others on here that it's the small things that matter, more than just the sex. It's the first eye contact, first smle, first kiss once the door closes and the way you are held after the phyiscal transaction is over. It's mental connection as well as the physical, the conversation, the common interests the way an hour seems like 10 minutes.

I don't think I ever will 'click' and to be perfectly honest I would raise the question would anyone would want to. Your story and others on here show that it does not end well. There is no Richard or Julia and there really is only one outcome - one or other stops it because it's just too painful. I much prefer to 'hit it off', make some great friends, but at the end of the day it's strictly business between a couple of good buddies.

[royaler]

Yes Kate, I know exactly what you mean. Tough decision to make but for your own sake it's a big one
In my opinion "Click" & "Chemistry" are completely different. It's like "Lovemaking" opposed to "Sex"

Well put Wolfie!

[Morpheus]

See, that's what I was talking about . That's what I was asking in my op. That's what I meant by 'hitting it off' , and

that's where my question came from : To the guys -- do you become a regular, or walk away..

And for the girls -- do you carry on or stop seeing him.. And you answered me, Kate. You had to stop for your own good.

My friend also stopped visiting me after several meetings, as it was becoming too much for him..

Ahhh...as usual I have have misread the thread! Or rather misread the terminology.


To me "hitting it off" or "clicking" means getting on really well with someone, and not just in a sexual sense. A lady that should we have met under different circumstances - we could have been quite happy hanging out together.


But I see you are asking about chemistry - falling for someone. That takes awhile for that to happen to me. It's never happened to me at first sight (in real life or with escorts). That's just my personality.

There was on particular lady (an escort) that had been tugging at my heart strings. But I hadn't really realised this. I had just started seeing escorts, and was smitten with her in whole lot of different ways. However, like most escorts she left and moved on after awhile. So that was thankfully the end of it. It was only when she left that the emotions I felt, made me realise that I should be more careful in the future.

Since then I've tried to space out appointments between the girls I revisit and not visit any one lady too much or exclusively.

[Stephanie]

Just out of interest Steph.......
I know that primarily its a business transaction but in the case you mentioned did you ever consider going to the next level?
I suspect I know your answer ........ but we're you even slightly tempted to deviate??

Nope. Not for a single second. I didn't. I am not here to find a boyfriend Thankfully he is a Gentleman, and never asked..

But darn.. lol. I was quite fond of him I could have kept on seeing him, as we were..

[Stephanie]

Hi Stephanie,
I can understand your guy having to stop visiting you. Attraction & compatibility are one thing but life isn't straightforward ................
I have met one or 2 ladies who I have hit it off with & under different circumstances could well have developed something with. They were / are special ladies & my mind hasn't changed on that score. I stopped seeing them by choice & as a result of this attraction. My life just doesn't have room for further complications, even if they might have entertained me :-(.
Hope you're doing well !
Nads. XXX

Hey Nads xx

Very true what you say..

[gaaman]

I think you can click with some of the beautiful women here, but we need to be careful that we don't take it the wrong way as the better escorts can make you feel like you have clicked with them. This is not being cynical but is a fact of this business.