Thank You Banjaxed
Telling lies in a past relationship about working absolutely destroyed me so I'd rather not go there again. I ended up accepting all sorts of crap that I never would have because I was riddled with guilt. Not a nice thing at all. I'm at the point now where I fully accept who I am and I'm proud of who I am too. Why should I compromise myself?
I love this quote by Marilyn Monroe: "The truth is I've never fooled anyone. I've let people fool themselves. They didn't bother to find out who and what I was. Instead they would invent a character for me. I wouldn't argue with them. They were obviously loving somebody I wasn't"
How many of us allow that to happen? I'm guessing lots. Sad but true.