Secret diary of a Dublin call girl

[Vasco da Gama]

I would like to draw attention to a recent blog that has been started with the above title.
http://secretdiaryofadublincallgirl....ess.com/about/

It has received considerable interest on other forums like boards.ie.
And we all should be interested as she quotes many threads and reviews on E-I.

This is her opening statement:

I was a call girl/escort/prostitute in Dublin, for four to five years.
This is where I have a voice, this is where I can say the truth.
Comments from the pro prostitution lobby and punters will be briefly skimmed over and then discarded. This is not a place for discussion

She is completely against the escorting industry as is evident from her threads. Everyone is entitled to his or her own views, as is the author of this blog. However, there is a very insidious message that she is sending. She clearly states that she wasn’t coerced into escorting or controlled while doing so.

I didn’t have that bad a time of it over the 4 -5 years that I was an escort

I was completely in control of my own work. I didn’t have anyone controlling me or pressuring me or forcing me


But her end conclusion is this:

Escorts are vessels, utensils, cum receptacles, fuck toys, whatever else you want to call them. To the punter, they are not entirely human, because no one entirely human would put up with such abuse, every day, every week.

The blogger says she was sexually manipulated and used in her late teens. And by association she applies this to all escorts:

Nobody wakes up one day thinking ‘Hey I think I’ll be a hooker’ and just goes for it. There is always something else behind the scenes, in the background. There is always some story, some reason beyond the facade.

Her message is essentially – that all escorts are victims. And if you work independently then you are victimizing yourself.

I do feel sorry for the blogger, if what she says is true about her abuse and sexual manipulation in her teens. No one should have to undergo that. However, extrapolating her experiences to all escorts isn’t a fair conclusion.

I have no doubt that many escorts will be able to relate to some of what she says. We have a number of our lady posters who certainly don’t pull punches on the forum and let fly about timewasters, smelly punters, hagglers etc.. But as independant escorts, you do have a choice to do this or quit. The blogger would contest that you (escorts) are not in control of your choices.

But I have reason to suspect that this isn’t the work of a single blogger but rather the carefully crafted propaganda of anti-escorting organisations. More in my next post.