Is it worse to punt when you are single or married?

[Curvaceous Kate]

Don't ask me why, but it seems to me that guys that punt when they are single seem to feel more embarrased about it than the ones that are married. You get the 'I could pull if I wanted to, I just don't want the hassle' conversation and they don't seem to be able to just enjoy themselves without explaining.

Guys, have any of you punted in both situations and which made you feel worse or did it not bother you either way? Does it feel more acceptable to be doing it due to 'fill a gap' in your marriage than be single and supposedly able to sow your wild oats when ever you want to yet still seeing an Escort?

Discuss...

[Wildthang]

Don't ask me why, but it seems to me that guys that punt when they are single seem to feel more embarrased about it than the ones that are married. You get the 'I could pull if I wanted to, I just don't want the hassle' conversation and they don't seem to be able to just enjoy themselves without explaining.

Guys, have any of you punted in both situations and which made you feel worse or did it not bother you either way? Does it feel more acceptable to be doing it due to 'fill a gap' in your marriage than be single and supposedly able to sow your wild oats when ever you want to yet still seeing an Escort?

Discuss...

Dont see the rreson to punt if one is single. the advatage about punting while in a realationship is because it keeps things simple and strictly business.

If I was single i would never punt....... makes no sense.

[bigslip]

Dont see the rreson to punt if one is single. the advatage about punting while in a realationship is because it keeps things simple and strictly business.If I was single i would never punt....... makes no sense.

Funny that, im single and see escorts, and if i had a gf, i wouldnt punt. its a funny auld world like that. granted i've never been married so i dont know your angle on things, but being single isnt about havin a different girl in your bed every other weekend, personally that makes me feel shallow after a while and thats if (sorry should be a big IF) your able to pull a different girl every other weekend. plus, have you seen the girls on this site? i dont consider myself unattractive, but they are miles outta my league if the playing feild is level. so an hour with a smokin hot chick without the complication of "so will i call you or you call me" conversation (both of us fully secure neither of us are callin the other) makes sense.

[gentelmandave]

Dont see the rreson to punt if one is single. the advatage about punting while in a realationship is because it keeps things simple and strictly business.

If I was single i would never punt....... makes no sense.

Why not punt if you are single? What's wrong with punting if your "SINGLE" Wild?????? what is the harm? Non Please explain this Stupid explanation Wild oh sorry forgot your a Dude we should bow down MY FUCKING ARSE

[Notatwork]

Single........if you have to resort to paying for your hole wheb single you need a new game plan but if your single and you want a seriously good shag,duo,threeo,four O......WHATEVER.......THEN ITS COOL......also if your girlfriend is IRISH......welcome on board.....

[max california]

I'm single and I punt.
When I started I probably was a little bit like in the OP but I'm gone beyod that stage now.
I just find it less complicatedalthough if I start a relationship, I will try to quit.

[beniktt]

I am single now was married now divorced. For me seeing an Escort is a situation of no agenda no ties just an hour of fun and fantasy. No complications in seeing someone for sex is ok for me. And when I feel the need I just pick up the phone and make the booking it's all very simple. I suppose depending on the age of the single person is where they may feel embarrassed but if us guys didn't have the urges to be with you fabulous Ladies here you wouldn't be here in the first place. Life is about having fun and this is just part of it.

[Wildthang]

Single and seeing escorts??????????? each to their own i suppose.

[Notatwork]

I am single now was married now divorced. For me seeing an Escort is a situation of no agenda no ties just an hour of fun and fantasy. No complications in seeing someone for sex is ok for me. And when I feel the need I just pick up the phone and make the booking it's all very simple. I suppose depending on the age of the single person is where they may feel embarrassed but if us guys didn't have the urges to be with you fabulous Ladies here you wouldn't be here in the first place. Life is about having fun and this is just part of it.

sounds like she done a real job on ya fella......dad....bro....best mate.....

[Curvaceous Kate]

I am single now was married now divorced. For me seeing an Escort is a situation of no agenda no ties just an hour of fun and fantasy. No complications in seeing someone for sex is ok for me. And when I feel the need I just pick up the phone and make the booking it's all very simple. I suppose depending on the age of the single person is where they may feel embarrassed but if us guys didn't have the urges to be with you fabulous Ladies here you wouldn't be here in the first place. Life is about having fun and this is just part of it.

The younger ones are the most worried about it in my experience. Personally I admire a man who knows he is not looking for a relationship and would rather do this than muck some poor innocent girl around, who might think there is more to it. It's a lot less selfish and it allows you to be more considered in who you do date, as the pressure is off, due to not lacking sexually. Being without sex can make you do some very silly things. I know!