Okay....lets talk about cheap

[wellhungchap]

i agree AND also concur with the above sentiments, deedin i do

[muineman]

Excellent thread - well said
Cant but agree with all the sentiments expressed

[Mousey]

Which is sad, as she is a whole person offering a unique service- essentially, she is offering her soul.

That's truly beautiful, Chambers. You use your tongue better than a ten-dollar who - ooops!

[ksteve]

Frankly, I am appalled at the number of unqualified congratulatory posts and 'thank yous' directed to the OP on this thread. There have been a number of threads recently about the attitude of clients towards escorts, chiefly one where an escort vehemently defended her stance that men who visit escorts have no respect for women. It has now been taken a stage further by this OP who explains, amongst other things, that guys must understand that whilst escorts are prepared to allow themselves to be abused by their visiting clients , they should understand and accept that the escort must be adequately compensated for this abuse. Ruhama will just love this one.

This statement was made by the OP to all guys who visit escorts including readers here, the vast majority of whom, have nothing but the greatest respect for escorts. I for one, totally and utterly reject any assertion, be it direct or indirect, that as a visitor of escorts that I abuse these ladies in any shape or form.

[carlos marvado]

Frankly, I am appalled at the number of unqualified congratulatory posts and 'thank yous' directed to the OP on this thread. There have been a number of threads recently about the attitude of clients towards escorts, chiefly one where an escort vehemently defended her stance that men who visit escorts have no respect for women. It has now been taken a stage further by this OP who explains, amongst other things, that guys must understand that whilst escorts are prepared to allow themselves to be abused by their visiting clients , they should understand and accept that the escort must be adequately compensated for this abuse. Ruhama will just love this one.

This statement was made by the OP to all guys who visit escorts including readers here, the vast majority of whom, have nothing but the greatest respect for escorts. I for one, totally and utterly reject any assertion, be it direct or indirect, that as a visitor of escorts that I abuse these ladies in any shape or form.

Point taken, but there is a sizeable section of the population out there (rather than in here) which would regard paying somebody else money to be allowed to use that person's body for the purposes of ones gratification as a form of abuse of and in itself. Don't make no difference whether you are polite and courteous and smiling when you are doing whatever it is you are doing to them.......it's simply a different perspective on the issue than one normally reads here.

[Stephanie]

Frankly, I am appalled at the number of unqualified congratulatory posts and 'thank yous' directed to the OP on this thread. There have been a number of threads recently about the attitude of clients towards escorts, chiefly one where an escort vehemently defended her stance that men who visit escorts have no respect for women. It has now been taken a stage further by this OP who explains, amongst other things, that guys must understand that whilst escorts are prepared to allow themselves to be abused by their visiting clients , they should understand and accept that the escort must be adequately compensated for this abuse. Ruhama will just love this one.

This statement was made by the OP to all guys who visit escorts including readers here, the vast majority of whom, have nothing but the greatest respect for escorts. I for one, totally and utterly reject any assertion, be it direct or indirect, that as a visitor of escorts that I abuse these ladies in any shape or form.

Point taken, but there is a sizeable section of the population out there (rather than in here) which would regard paying somebody else money to be allowed to use that person's body for the purposes of ones gratification as a form of abuse of and in itself. Don't make no difference whether you are polite and courteous and smiling when you are doing whatever it is you are doing to them.......it's simply a different perspective on the issue than one normally reads here.

I don't feel abused. I rather enjoy what I do.

If someone feels used or abused, then perhaps the financial rewards are not worth continuing in this line of work,

as it will eat away at the soul if you are doing something that you are unhappy with. Can turn people bitter and resentful.

As Amy said we do put a bit of ourselves into each encounter, but -- as she said -- there's no soul-selling here.

My soul stays very safely and securely and warmly right where it is : with me.

[paul_m]

I don't feel abused. I rather enjoy what I do.

If someone feels used or abused, then perhaps the financial rewards are not worth continuing in this line of work,

as it will eat away at the soul if you are doing something that you are unhappy with. Can turn people bitter and resentful.

As Amy said we do put a bit of ourselves into each encounter, but -- as she said -- there's no soul-selling here.

My soul stays very safely and securely and warmly right where it is : with me.

Agreed, you are in the wrong line of work in you think that.

[ksteve]

Point taken, but there is a sizeable section of the population out there (rather than in here) which would regard paying somebody else money to be allowed to use that person's body for the purposes of ones gratification as a form of abuse of and in itself. Don't make no difference whether you are polite and courteous and smiling when you are doing whatever it is you are doing to them.......it's simply a different perspective on the issue than one normally reads here.

Of course there is ( a huge section) but very few if any ( or so I thought until recently ) are members here or genuine readers of the boards.

[Aylin]

Good thread Lucy

[doodlebug]

One point worth remembering viz a viz an escort not wanting to be in this line of work and feeling abused, is that it is not uncommon in many other professions for people to have the same feelings. I am not saying it is right, far from it, but it is not exclusive to the sex industry, just check out customer service in some of the larger organizations and you will come across a large number of employees who don't want to be doing what they are and feel they are being abused having to do it for the money!!!!