Okay....lets talk about cheap

[ksteve]

The reality... an escort I've seen a few times recently, who has already dropped her price by 20 euro, felt relaxed enough I suppose,to ask me if I didn't mind if she didnt do one of the services on her faves. it was ok by me, she could sit there drinking tea as far as I'm concerned, she said she actually hated doing it. When I asked why she offers services she hates, her reply was that if she didn't she feared clients would go to girls who did and lose customers. Rather sad I thought .

The very last thing I would want to do is something that the lady hates ! How should clients approach this ? For me FK is an absolute must and in the past as a service I believe it was virtually unheard of . The thought of kissing a lady who in fact is silently heaving inside makes my own stomach turn . What to do ??

[doodlebug]

Well put Lucy, and from the heart. The only problem is the numbers, only a small percentage of clients actually use or read the forum so the people you need to get to aren't even hearing your message.

It is almost incomprehensible for men that you are not just providing a service but giving a part of you too, we don't have to do that and some of us think because we hand over money we own you lock stock and barrel. If you can't see the person behind the transaction then don't visit escorts.

I welcome the chance to share some intimacy with an escort and if I get to witness her soul that is my privilege and is indeed something priceless.

Respect costs nothing and earns a lot.

[jayf1]

Yes, you are right. Sometimes to leave a location can be problematic so you over price. This is very unfair when the person has no other option. Im sorry. If you wish I will come and see you for the same price, but please understand that ladies have to earn money too. To lose two or three hours around a booking can be very worrying.

thank you for that very kind offer but i will always pay the advertised rates. i also understand the loss of time around the appointment which is why i always try and book an escort that is located within at most a 15 min drive from my location as its not because i dont have the option of going to visit an escort at her place its a choice i make to use the out-call service because i just feel more comfortable.

[Lucy Chambers]

thank you for that very kind offer but i will always pay the advertised rates. i also understand the loss of time around the appointment which is why i always try and book an escort that is located within at most a 15 min drive from my location as its not because i dont have the option of going to visit an escort at her place its a choice i make to use the out-call service because i just feel more comfortable.

But that is why you are a nice client. Many people would feel the escort should be grateful for the booking. Im sorry you are having difficulty.

[jayf1]

But that is why you are a nice client. Many people would feel the escort should be grateful for the booking. Im sorry you are having difficulty.

i also have to say by using the out-call service whenever i make an appointment it has given me a small insight into what you and other escorts must go trough every day. where most clients only have to make sure they are well cleaned i also make sure my home is well cleaned my bed has fresh sheets and my bathroom has clean fresh towels so i can only guess what its like when you have to do that maybe 3-4 times every night.

[DomCobb]

Occasionally guys, a lady may charge less. This usually means she has to do so. Which is sad, as she is a whole person offering a unique service- essentially, she is offering her soul.

So may I say? Please dont post applauding that, the lady had to sacrifice something to do that. Please dont mention that you think something is expensive, this is our soul we are selling, souls arent cheap.Please remember we are mothers, daughters, sisters and people, and please understand that for us to do this there has to be gain, or it isnt worth abusing yourself. Or being abused. Please understand that in order to do this, we sell a little of ourselves and we need your understanding too. We are not the stock market, we are people. We are just like your sister, just the same as your mum, no worse than your wife. We just decided that we could do this, thats all. We didnt opt out of the human race in order to suck your cock. So please. Think about what you say, and think about what you do. One day you may realise we are just like you.

Great post Lucy

[imnotscotish]

what gets to me is when an escort makes no effort as it shows a lack of respect for the client and wont get a repeat booking. A client deserves a bit of respect as well. Ive often paid more than the asking price if i think the escort deserves it or given them a small present or so. Ive respect for them all and for whatever reason they are doing it. They are human first and escort second and have feelings like anyone else. It cant be easy to look good for every client and treat them like the only client they see that day. Its all about respect and it works both ways

[Eugen]

Well said, Lucy, however I wouldn't say I'm selling my soul. Very personal and intimate services, yes, there may be some soul touching elements once in a while too but my soul stays where it is

I like the way Amy keeps it real.

[EnglishAlex]

I like the way Amy keeps it real.

Me too.

Lucy this is a great thread

[Athlone Lover]

Lucy,

You are quite correct in your remarks and from my experiance it is always best to be gracious, couteous and considerate of the woman, both sexually and emotionally. However there are a number of escorts who do take the "wham, bam and get out the door " approach.

I feel it is better to relax and communicate with the person before proceeding to the bed, get to know them and make them feel relaxed and secure.

Finally I think most men would realise that escorts are not like us, but better, because it means putting your soul on the line with every client. do not a couple of bad experiances put you off, there are some good guys out there.