Emasculation?

[Prickly]

I have read a few comments form members today and my over riding feeling is that some of you feel the escorts are attempting to emasculate you here. I cannot speak for other ladies but I really dont think it is the intention. The intention is to be honest with you, to give you an insight into our world and also, hopefully, make you smile. We dont only sell sex, look pretty and get horny, we bitch cry and moan too I dont think being outspoken is a sin, but I dont like the idea some members are feeling bullied. Please try and take our comments in the spirit they are meant, you are just as important as us here, but sometimes we are in the more vulnerable position and so the site does move to protect us. A tip would be to give as good as you get, not one of us would complain about that. Thanks for listening.

Bullied? Emasculated? You're not that scary Ms. Chambers.
I think it's better things are said directly and plainly. We know what the alternative is - and it isn't nice.

I don't feel threatened by what's said here - by you or others.

[johnnybbad]

I'm that stoned it's lucky i can see straight, google would be a major task for me right now.

hay ive been there before ..lol love the smiley by the way looks like hes having fun lol

[Lucy Chambers]

Bullied? Emasculated? You're not that scary Ms. Chambers.
I think it's better things are said directly and plainly. We know what the alternative is - and it isn't nice.

I don't feel threatened by what's said here - by you or others.

Im not? Oh bugger. I was trying so hard to be too

We do indeed know the alternative. I agree this is infinitely preferable. Im not a PM diva, and we all like to feel wanted.

[Morpheus]

I have read a few comments form members today and my over riding feeling is that some of you feel the escorts are attempting to emasculate you here. I cannot speak for other ladies but I really dont think it is the intention. The intention is to be honest with you, to give you an insight into our world and also, hopefully, make you smile. We dont only sell sex, look pretty and get horny, we bitch cry and moan too I dont think being outspoken is a sin, but I dont like the idea some members are feeling bullied. Please try and take our comments in the spirit they are meant, you are just as important as us here, but sometimes we are in the more vulnerable position and so the site does move to protect us. A tip would be to give as good as you get, not one of us would complain about that. Thanks for listening.

Thank you for your thread and comments Lucy.

It's late and I'm tired and so I'm going to do the stupid thing of actually speaking my mind. Which is completely against the grain of what everyone else has said on this thread. No doubt, I will get emasculated for it!!.

I appreciate how hard a job escorting is. (Well in as much as I can being a client and not an escort). It really upsets me when I hear of what you ladies have to put up with - timewaster clients, dirty arses, price hagglers, women haters,etc... Not to mention the cut throat nature of the business .

It is good to have reminders of these time and again. However, sometimes the forum seems to be dominated by these sentiments. And it makes me feel like quiting seeing escorts. Afterall if the job is so bad and being an escort is so terrible....why should I contribute to the misery being inflicted on escorts??.

For my part I've always endeavoured to be what I think an escort would want from a client. I'm always punctual (arrive and leave on time), never cancel appointments (at least not yet), do my darnest to be as clean as possible. I never negotiate price. And when revisiting a lady I've seen, even if she has reduced her rates from when I first saw her, I will still pay her what she used to charge previously. I will always be respectful regardless of the lady's attitude towards me. And I am genuinely grateful whenever a lady agrees to see me.

And I suspect many other punters or posters here are like this. It's just that sometimes all we seem to hear about are how bad clients are. And after awhile I wonder if that includes me?

So thank you Lucy for the thread. It does help keep things in balance.

(Heather also had a heart warming thread yesterday thanking good clients).

And yes there is a group of you ladies that are incredibly intimidating on the forum!! And occasionally you do gang up on a poster and take him to pieces!! (Deservedly in many cases ). But it did sound like you all just hated punters and men in general.

So thank you for this counter balancing thread which puts things in perspective again!.

[hd7055]

Sweet Jesus - who let the Hobbyist back in!

Overly verbose, self-congratulationaty bollix Morph. As usual ...