Julius Caesar (15-11-11)
Julius Caesar (14-11-11)
Not a nice name to call anyone. Yes ( I ) am a married man and i have been punting since long before the computer was even invented. I have stated my reasons here before. As far as i am concerned it's my own business as everyone have their own reasons. Some guys are single others are married or in a relationship. Loneliness can have a lot to do with it. Their is also a lot of guys out there who would love to meet escorts but haven't the balls to do it.
jammy69 (14-11-11), Julius Caesar (15-11-11), Vindictus (14-11-11)
"Loverats"... agreed, it's not a nice name.
But it's not nice to stray from a promise of monogamy either. In my opinion.
Of course, there are always the escape clauses... "purely physical" doesn't mean I've been unfaithful; it will strengthen the relationship by satisfying urges that aren't quenched at home; the Clinton explanation (I did not have sex with that woman...)
We rationalise it whatever way makes sense to ourselves.... And as this is a non-judgmental arena for our thoughts and ramblings, we can do so knowing that there's someone as fluid and flexible with morals and ethics as ourselves.
wolfie (15-11-11)
LoveRats is a bit harsh sure not like they are having an affair they are paying for it, so its not cheating
Did you not know when the wife says in church ''I do''. It means she saying i do agree that its ok for my new husband to pay for sex as long as he not shagging Maggie next door for free
How about just calling them The Strays
Julius Caesar (14-11-11)
Very good thinking...
You would have to walk in my boots to know why i stray. Nothing personal Vindicus but i and only i know my situation
Ah lads don't matter what you call it loverat adulterer whatever it is and some guys have perfectly good reasons for seeing escorts ie: wives girlfriend sick or not able etc we all have our reasons but don't get hot under the coller about a tag cos a shag is a shag
"Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. Yes is the answer."
i use to punt quite regular when i was single but i am in a fantastic relationship now i would feel gulty as hell to punt at the moment but i do think about it sometimes forbbiden fruit always tastes good i suppose.
Franken996 (17-11-11), wolfie (15-11-11)