Is your idea of marriage to be sexually faithful to your partner ?

[MrNiceGuy2010]

Obviously for a lot of folk on here it aint......but you know just because we are on here does not mean we may wish for or maybe even expect monogamy when married.........assuming you even wish to ever get married of course.

I would say yes

[max california]

me and alec are going to get hitched in vodoo cermony
just need to sort that chicken out and broom

You'll make a lovely couple, when is the first spawn due?

[doodlebug]

i am a total hypocrite, if and when i get married once i retire, i would never cheat and if i caught my partner at it, i would chop his cock off!!

You planning on retiring soon????? purely out of concern for the male members of society you understand. lol

[Morpheus]

Obviously for a lot of folk on here it aint......but you know just because we are on here does not mean we may wish for or maybe even expect monogamy when married.........assuming you even wish to ever get married of course.

As someone who has never been married, I still believe in monogamy in marriage. For that matter I believe in monogamy in any sexual relationship e.g. boyfriend- girlfriend (and have been monogamous and faithful in any of my previous relationships).

However, now that I've started seeing escorts, I think it would be very hard for me to be monogamous (i.e. not see escorts anyomore) if I ever do settle down. I have no doubt that I will be able to be faithful for the first few years, but once the sex life cools, I'm sure the itch to start seeing escorts will rear its head again. I have tasted the forbidden fruit and it's very hard to go back. So I'm not looking to start a relationship anymore.

On the other hand I really feel for the guys who are trapped in loveless, sexless marriages. If ever there was a justification for the escorting trade, this has to be it. However, I have no doubt that their spouses (and women in general) would disagree.

[Morpheus]

i am a total hypocrite, if and when i get married once i retire, i would never cheat and if i caught my partner at it, i would chop his cock off!!

I guess you are just being honest Samantha (rather than being hypocritical). And I think most women would do the same.

However, this response usually comes as a shock to most of us men! Especially when there is any talk of cock chopping!

In the TV series "Secret diary of a call girl", Belle destroys the life of an ex-boyfriend when she finds out that he is a punter and has been seeing other escorts! I was shocked at the ferocity of her response. But in hindsight I guess all women would respond in similar fashion. (And escorts are women too!)

I guess for an escort, sex with strangers is work and not actually "sex". And therefore would not be perceived as infidelity on their part?

[MrNiceGuy2010]

me and alec are going to get hitched in vodoo cermony
just need to sort that chicken out and broom

I will host the cermony if u like lol
I have plenty of free range Yickens

[MrNiceGuy2010]

i am a total hypocrite, if and when i get married once i retire, i would never cheat and if i caught my partner at it, i would chop his cock off!!

Its hard to imagine a man being tempted to cheat when married to a sexy lady like yourself

[sperminater]

Look a lot of us got married when we were to young and sex life we thaught was great then we got bored for what ever reason there are many I'm sure. I never 2 timed till I started punting and my reasons for that will remain with me, but I have to ask why?? One simple answer is the relationship is fucked and I've broken the trust I thaught I could do it and go home but no I had to look deeper and let me tell you if you have to stray there's something wrong. So yes is the answer to the thread but of course there's reasons why both he or she can't have sex from time to time but if you love someone dearly you'll wait that I know

[skywalker85]

Its hard to imagine a man being tempted to cheat when married to a sexy lady like yourself

But does it really matter how sexy the lady is, as im sure there are many guys who cheat who are with beautiful ladys, Rooney and Tiger come to mind

[1hand2balls]

But does it really matter how sexy the lady is, as im sure there are many guys who cheat who are with beautiful ladys, Rooney and Tiger come to mind

Spot on Skywalker I'm not wanting to brag as that's not the kind of guy I am but my wife is a stunner and lots of guys tell me how lucky I am however after 10 years together, not all married sex has gone from 5 times a night in the early days to lucky if it's 5 times a month. I've been faithful up until recently as basically a guy has needs and when I say to my wife we should have more sex I'm made out to be some sort of sex maniac. I still find her as sexy as anyone but unfortunately when I remind her of how we used to have so much sex she blames old age, being tired etc etc. Were only in our early 30's. Have spoken to manys a person and they tell me similar stories. So just because you have a hot wife certainly doesn't mean you'll be having the kind of fantasy sex you can have with the many hot escorts on offer here!