Stephanie (13-09-11)
Stephanie (13-09-11)
Last edited by warmcome; 12-09-11 at 17:34.
I have no problem acknowledging the companionship aspect of seeing escorts. And it has become more a big factor over time. Maybe too big. I enjoy the sex - most of the time, but sex without some form of connection can be very empty. On the other hand when there's emotional longing involved there is also the danger of addictive behaviour. Seeing escorts may be a way to make up for the lack of sex at home, or having a very high sex drive, but I think, in the long run, it's the wrong way to make up for a lack of companionship.Ksteve
Seeing escorts should have nothing to do with your chances of having a normal relationship with a girl in civvy street. You should not confuse the two. I suspect your worries about forming normal relationships need to be adressed in other ways. The best of luck --- everyone should experience the magic of being in a loving relationship
The morals of what we do?
I believe that paying for sex is morally wrong. It can't be right for me to use women for the sole purpose of satisfying my sexual urges.
But i still behave the way i do...people may justify their behaviour but if an act is right or just you shouldn't need to justify it.
I don't disagree with you there, and it ends up becoming very messy because the emotional overcomes the physical and clients begin to think they have found true love. I hate to be cynical about it, but business is business and where money is changing hands emotions take second place. So if you are craving emotional connection I suggest you try a dating site, or else be aware that friendships with escorts are fine but there is a line that you don't cross.
Sorry for sounding like hard hearted Henry here but that is the truth of this business.
No need to be sorry. I would be very disappointed if I didn't get frank responses. I think the physical desire is the primary motive. The emotional is in the background but one needs to be aware of it and wary of it. I think falling for an escort, or should I say the wrong escort, is a shortcut to an empty bank account. (As well as a broken heart )