Originally Posted by
orlathmac
just a question when u see a ladies add here or elsewhere do u actualy read the add?
or just find the number and decide to do the 20 questions bit?
like most ladies out their including me include all info on any add we post be it here or elsewhere and its comming to point it gets a bit madding and hard to be up beat and friendly to everyone that calls mind u, most of these guys are timewasters
also why do u feel the need to negiotate fee? its not moore st and ya i know its a recession but my rent is as expensive for a one bed as is esb etc so our cost are the same yet we still have dropped prices
and yes im ready for the backlash off this thread but someone gotta say it
i doubt im the only escort that get pissed with this
Thanks for the question Orla. I like to think I do my homework before making an appointment to see a lady. It's seldom last minute, which means I've generally been eyeing the lady's profile for weeks, have taken note of favourites on offer and have read her reviews, before I take the plunge.
However, I must admit to being very visual like most men - hence the photos tend to get in the way of the writting!! (Please don't get me wrong, if I didn't find the said lady's photos enticing, I wouldn't be going any further.)
The problem from a clients perspective is that the write ups on the profiles are so variable. Some are completely non specific and others are clearly written by a third party (not that I'm against that given that most of the ladies don't speak English as a first language).
It tends to be the more established ladies that have actually taken time and thought into what they say on their profiles. But for a horny lad skimming through multiple profiles - I guess sometimes it's too much effort to distinguish these profiles from the rest. Again as mentioned above, I tend to do my homework first (because I'm a sad bastard and spend a lot of time on E-I) but I suspect the average client may not have time for this.
I never discuss services on the phone, mainly because of the 'cringe' factor. Although I can see how this does makes sense given that favourites listed aren't always accurate. I just find it a bit distasteful. As mentioned I would have taken sometime to make a decison before I call or PM to make an appointment. If the said lady doesn't provide my favourites as listed, I'm not going to make a fuss but will be unlikely to re-visit. I should have mentioned at the beginning that my whole aim of seeing a new girl (ie.. new to me, not new in the business) is to find someone that I'd like to visit regularly.
I would never negotiate prices. I feel that's really cheap. If I can't afford a said lady's time and companionship then I should have the decency to accept that's she above my price range. However, I do understand why some guys do this given that the whole 'negotiating prices thing' has now become almost ingrained in our culture since Ireland went bust. Heck, we're even trying to negotiate the EU-IMF bailout!
Sorry you had a bad day Orla. I hope you get better and more discerning clients this coming week.
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"