Originally Posted by
EbonyAmber
I'm guessing a lot of you chaps have certain ladies that you see regularly. Today I saw a client again and he turned up too bloody early (I said 3pm dammit) and I had no clothes or make up on! Not even a slick of bloody lipgloss. I was annoyed as I try to take a bit of pride in my appearance. It lead me thinking.
My question is this.
Do you hope/expect that the more often you go and see her the more effort she will put into her appearance and the session? Maybe she will start offering an extra service or allow a little extra time.
Or does a part of you hope/expect that over time she will be comfortable enough with you to perhaps wear no make up or not need to do that really awkward sexual position that makes her back feckin kill?
I'm not talking about hairy legs and a headache- you guys ain't married :P But just generally feel a bit more chill.
Opinions and experiences welcome
Nice thread Amber. My thing is repeat visits to ladies whose company I've enjoyed. We're not talking stalking levels! Just every 1-2 months or so. Or in the case of touring ladies - when she tours my town.
Obviously I do see new girls but I find the expereince so much better with someone I've already established a connection with. I would have learned her do's and don't's. And she would have learned what really pushes my buttons.
I would never expect anything extra from a lady that I see regularly - with regards to her time or service. I would never expect her to perform services that she normal doesn't just because I'm a return customer.
I know some guys like the whole 'natural' tousled just out of bed look, but I really love it when a girl is all dolled up with make up, fabulous hair, sexy lingerie and killer heels. I like the imaginary GFE not the sort of real life GFE!. And this applies no matter how many times I see a lady. (And I will always give her ample time to get ready).
The only extra allowance I would hope for from ladies that I revisit - would be the facillity to make advanced bookings. This is seldom possible with a lady I'm going to visit for the first time because of all the time wasters out there.
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"