...if they are not truely happy? Why do u stay? Is it because u are afraid of being alone? I mean I've seen it so often are people simply stupid or just clingy?
...if they are not truely happy? Why do u stay? Is it because u are afraid of being alone? I mean I've seen it so often are people simply stupid or just clingy?
Last edited by Experienced Punter esq; 13-06-11 at 18:34.
Children .
The elephant is the ONLY mammal that can't jump
Experienced Punter esq (13-06-11)
Children is probably the main reason that people stay in relationships that they are not happy in. Although as Dolly pointed out to me last night staying in the bad relationship can have as bad an effect on the children.
The other reason is that sense of duty.......not a good reason ........it leads to resentment!
Another reason is not wanting to be seen in a bad light and maybe becoming an outcast in your circle of friends!!
The whole seperation thing can also be hurtful to good friends that you knew as a couple ....... because you've been deceiving them as well as your partner and yourself.
Jesus I hate these too frequent feelings of shame and guilt!!!
Bruno69 (13-06-11), emmasweet (13-06-11), Experienced Punter esq (13-06-11), sperminater (13-06-11)
Yes,i agree.
Sometimes you are not happy with somebody but you are afraid to be alone,then...
You love your boyfriend and i hate him in the same time,but u donīt let him...
It is,but in a long term relationship some women thinks ok i have him cant work for him or for the relationship any more!
Have a close friend she is whit her fiance for 10yrs,at the begining she was beautiful sexy,but now shes just an ugly cow course we wanted to help her,in relationship and heath wise as well but shes not listening,just talking about how hard to be with a baby!!!!i know its a hard job but we have to take care of ourselves!!!!
Good bye Ireland!
Experienced Punter esq (13-06-11)
thats fine Bruno but there isnt always children involved I mean I have experience with 2 couples I am friends with they are simply aaaalways fighting the guys both tell me individually how sick they are of each others partners they are simply at a stage in their lives where they are simply not responsive to change stupid isn't it? I must say I think men need more backbone..
Imminent self assessment here matey , gonna try and straighten my back.