Being able to hold a conversation with an escort

[ksteve]

Ok, so far it seems my view on this is a minority one. Perhaps my discomfort stems from a booking abroad a few years ago and it was a long booking and I remember struggling to keep the vibe going.Perhaps this says something about me !!

[Lucy Chambers]

Ok, so far it seems my view on this is a minority one. Perhaps my discomfort stems from a booking abroad a few years ago and it was a long booking and I remember struggling to keep the vibe going.Perhaps this says something about me !!

Not really a minority chickie, just everyone has different needs. The ladies need to learn to speak English also, so talking to them is the best way....but if you don't like that, you don't go. If you get tricked into going and the only question is 'que; then maybe just leave.

You seem to look for an experience, as opposed to a quick appointment. Unfortunately that means you must do a lot more research. Of course some girls work without the language, there wouldnt be ads here if not.

[ksteve]

Not really a minority chickie, just everyone has different needs. The ladies need to learn to speak English also, so talking to them is the best way....but if you don't like that, you don't go. If you get tricked into going and the only question is 'que; then maybe just leave.

You seem to look for an experience, as opposed to a quick appointment. Unfortunately that means you must do a lot more research. Of course some girls work without the language, there wouldnt be ads here if not.

Well, I'm not sure what you mean by an experience but yes I think I do try to enjoy the totality of the booking -- I dont really go for the quickie release type appointments I suppose. And yes, you are right about the research, although I have no problem taking a gamble and have been the ladys first client on at least two memorable occasions and have visited others with little or no review. If the photos are verified and the profile looks genuine, I'll take the risk but the 'vibe ' you get has to be right !

[Lucy Chambers]

Well, I'm not sure what you mean by an experience but yes I think I do try to enjoy the totality of the booking -- I dont really go for the quickie release type appointments I suppose. And yes, you are right about the research, although I have no problem taking a gamble and have been the ladys first client on at least two memorable occasions and have visited others with little or no review. If the photos are verified and the profile looks genuine, I'll take the risk but the 'vibe ' you get has to be right !

That's the thing sweetie. Other people may want to fulfill a quicker more basic need, or the lady is hot and they couldn't care less (until it comes to a bad review in which case it takes on an urgent meaning)... Freud it isn't

[ksteve]

That's the thing sweetie. Other people may want to fulfill a quicker more basic need, or the lady is hot and they couldn't care less (until it comes to a bad review in which case it takes on an urgent meaning)... Freud it isn't

No, more a pain in the arse !!

[Morpheus]

I could pretend to be sophisticated and gentlemanly and all that...but truth is, I visit escorts primarily for sex. It would be a lie to pretend otherwise. And language doesn't come a whole lot into the actual sex part. There are so many non-verbal signals that more than suffice for the sex bit. I have seen escorts abroad, and have had to stick to non verbal communication in most cases. And most of those experiences have been good.

However, after all the rutting and grunting - I like nothing better than cuddles and chat. (I always book for 1 hour, so theres time for this).

Thus far, in Ireland I've had the privilege of seeing ladies who not only blow my mind on the sex bit, but also do great chat and cuddles.

So in answer to the OP's question - I would be willing to see escorts who have limited English (as I well appreciate that everyone has their own language and I can't expect everyone to speak English). However, I do love to chat, so will always have a preference for ladies that can carry a conversation in English.

[BootSlick55]

You can't really expect them to speak fluent English every time. Most escorts are multi-lingual; EEs will generally have their own tongue, German, some Russian maybe, as well as English hopefully. Latin Americans will have Spanish, Portuguese, maybe Italian or French as well as English.

We, on the other hand, will be mostly mono-lingual (English) with not much Irish thrown in.

They win, hands down. Sex is more about non-verbal communication anyway.

[Ebony Amber]

Also lets not forget that being fluent in English doesn't guarentee being able to hold a good conversation.

[robijntje]

I could pretend to be sophisticated and gentlemanly and all that...but truth is, I visit escorts primarily for sex. It would be a lie to pretend otherwise. And language doesn't come a whole lot into the actual sex part. There are so many non-verbal signals that more than suffice for the sex bit. I have seen escorts abroad, and have had to stick to non verbal communication in most cases. And most of those experiences have been good.
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At last, someone who is honest! You have my respect, Morpheus .

There have been threads about having a chat with an escort, going over just chitchat to deep and meaningful conversations about life, death, where we come from, and where we are going. Many people have stated that a chat before and/or after the sex is equally important, if not more important, than the sex itself.

If the chat is so important, then why does nobody go for just a chat? Why is sex always mandatory? People writing reviews going into detail how bestial and godlike the sex was, and then also briefly mention that a nice chat was also included (with a few exceptions here and there ofc)...

I'm not saying that a chat is not important, mind you, but hell, saying that it's more important than the sex? Hypocrite.

What an utter load of bollocks, dog-, horse-, cat-, pidgeon-, zooshite. You visit an escort mainly for the sex, be honest about it and don't be a goddamn hypocrite in pretending it be otherwise.

As for me, the escort must speak English OR Dutch OR French OR German on a reasonable level... I'm not visiting a machine, I'm visiting a human being, thank you very much...

[ksteve]

I could pretend to be sophisticated and gentlemanly and all that...but truth is, I visit escorts primarily for sex. It would be a lie to pretend otherwise. And language doesn't come a whole lot into the actual sex part. There are so many non-verbal signals that more than suffice for the sex bit. I have seen escorts abroad, and have had to stick to non verbal communication in most cases. And most of those experiences have been good.
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Not being a sophisticate myself I am somewhat at a disadvantage here but I doubt if being sophisticated means that you have lost your libido.!

Are you saying that, other than special cases, there are numbers of guys who visit escorts primarily for reasons other than sex ? I certainly havent met any !

At last, someone who is honest! You have my respect, Morpheus .

There have been threads about having a chat with an escort, going over just chitchat to deep and meaningful conversations about life, death, where we come from, and where we are going. Many people have stated that a chat before and/or after the sex is equally important, if not more important, than the sex itself.
If the chat is so important, then why does nobody go for just a chat? Why is sex always mandatory? People writing reviews going into detail how bestial and godlike the sex was, and then also briefly mention that a nice chat was also included (with a few exceptions here and there ofc)...

I'm not saying that a chat is not important, mind you, but hell, saying that it's more important than the sex? Hypocrite.

What an utter load of bollocks, dog-, horse-, cat-, pidgeon-, zooshite. You visit an escort mainly for the sex, be honest about it and don't be a goddamn hypocrite in pretending it be otherwise.

As for me, the escort must speak English OR Dutch OR French OR German on a reasonable level... I'm not visiting a machine, I'm visiting a human being, thank you very much...

Interesting --- links to the threads please ?

Correct -- a reasonable or basic level is perfectly fine. The OP does not refer to any necessity for fluency at all .