No keep your independence, he knew what you did when he met you, always dangerous when someone tries to change you into something your not. Has to be your decision to give it up not hisOriginally Posted by SamanthaAngelManchester
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its a tough one.... if u do it, u should be 100% sure that u want to, no point in resenting him in the future. he knew what he was getting into from the start but maybe it gets harder as his love gets stronger for u. i hate the thought of people going out with someone but with the intention of changing certain things about them...everybody is different though and every situation is too. Its your decision at the end of the day.
trust is something you have to build..
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Funnily enough, one of the most important things for a relationship to be a success is for each partner to have an element of their life that is seperate from the other.
My inexpert advice would be to be a little careful. Its understandable why a man would want you to give up the business but at the same time just make sure that its what you both want.
How about a compromise where you work maybe 2 days a week?
If I was in your fellas situation I would want you to give up escorting too, it's only natural for someone not to want to share their partner. Does he still see other escorts or has he given up that aspect of his life? If he has then maybe you should too, not everyone cheats, when ever I am in a relationship I stop seeing escorts too. At the end of the day this is an anonymous Internet forum so peoples advice is really worthless, including my own. You're the only person here that fully knows you situation and feelings for this guy so you'll have to make your own mind up
Just don't give it up before our meeting in Dublin babe! ;-)
Go with your heart but if you genuinely love the money/sex/job then think long and hard about it. However, I can totally see why your fella would want you to give up, no guy would want to share his girl with hundereds of others.
I've never been in that situation, either as an escort (obviously) or client, so I don't really feel qualified to give advice, but I can share some thoughts. Realistically, the relationship probably won't work out. Most relationships don't, even ones that aren't between escorts and clients. But you won't know if you don't try. You could return to escorting later if things fall apart. I know some ladies have done that. It could be difficult to get back into it, so it's not a decision to made lightly.
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I have two answers for you, Samantha.
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Go with your heart; if you love him enough to give up something you say you love doing, then give it a go. Weigh up the pros and cons, and whichever wins, wins. Bear in mind that he did know what you did before you fell in love, and it could be considered unfair for him to ask you to give up an important part of your life. He should love you for what you are, and not what you could be. I can totally understand that he'd want you to give it up though.
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Don't give it up! You understand that this is the totally selfish answer, as I want you back over here on repeated occasions...
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