Thank goodness for that, at least now I know you won't be wasting my time
In all fairness, I might call you later I suppose is a way of saying I'm not going to call you as you haven't really enticed me to make an appointment so isn't really timewasting, a guy is entitled to hold off making a decision untill after you have spoken. Making an appointment or habitually calling girls to do that is. For me personally I'm direct, I don't really chit chat as I know a lot of ladies only take calls in between appointments so they haven't got a lot of time to spare if it's busy, I proclaim definitively that I would like to meet them at there next available time slot and what time would that be, usually I'm a last minute guy, we then agree on the time, some small talk and I hang up.
I know I may come across as very direct when I make the initial call but it's only because I feel when I make the call the lady already has me so making an appointment in the quickest amount of time possible doesn't effect her chances of taking a call from a guy that may be undecided and needs that little extra coaxing time to make an appointment.
Sensual Delights (25-01-11), warmcome (25-01-11)
I spent nearly €4k on escorts last year so I dont consider myself a timewaster.
I take calls for a living, I have to repeat information that is advertised-annoning!
But if I get smart-i'll lose a sale/rent.
Last edited by warmcome; 25-01-11 at 16:19.
If i will be a men. Then i will go first on the website and check photos,service and price. This 3 things are main. Then also reviews if she will have them. Then i will call her and ask for an app and arrange time. Come on time,pay her and take a proper shower. Thats all So easy but so so so many people arent able to do it pity!
Surely a simple question to clarify the cost includes the services you are looking for doesn't mean your a time waster?? Quite a lot of threads actually advise this to make sure you get the most out of the meeting, and the girl doesn't have to turn down requests when a punter is already there??
warmcome (25-01-11)
The phone call...
All my biz is done by the phone call.... and I have had various experiences. First of all I do not ring unless I have already made up my mind to visit. The sound of her voice means nothing in my decision making, although if she is pleasant it sets the mood. I am very patient with a girl that sounds bored or annoyed, as I have sat next to an escort many a time as she answers the phone and have witnessed her answering the same ol', same ol' questions every 10 minutes or so. It must get tedious. She seemed to perk up at times and was more polite and when I would ask why she was were you more pleasant to him, she would respond, "He said hello, how are you, before he asked the first question".
The simple little things in life...pffff
Notatwork (25-01-11), Sensual Delights (25-01-11), warmcome (25-01-11)
In an ideal world Nikky this is the way it should be, but the reality is that the information regarding services on alot of profiles
is incorrect,if u dont ask u are assuming things are avaliable which are not and then the problems start. This can all be done
in a polite manner without being too graphic or sleazy. To add to that i also always check with the lady on arrival if now that
she has seen me she is still happy to provide those services. This makes things very clear and removes the possibilities of
misunderstandings. At this stage there has been no buisness transaction and both parties have an opt out clause if either
wishes to avail of it. If u follow that path really then there should be no excuse for poor service etc and everybody should
be happy
Blatant promotion should be outlawed
but
Vincent Browne is a Hero
warmcome (25-01-11)
That's actually very accurate what you describe there, it's sometimes good to spend time with an escort (if you can) outside an actual appointment, to realise some things.
I am the same at the moment. Lukewarm when I answer the phone, as most of the time there are just the same kind of questions and a little more enthousiastic when I get the feeling that I am talking with a decent person. Even if the respectful ones don't book something, I answer gladly their inquiries because some people have genuine questions and it's their right to make sure of certain facts if they want to go ahead or not with an appointment.
In my previous post here I was refering to people who are just asking "If I am working", not giving me a time frame or anything. When I ask what time would suit them, they are like "Can I call you next week / tomorrow etc? ". No real information is exchanged, no nothing. Nobody needs my persmission, lol, to ring me next week or tomorrow and even if I agree to that it does not mean I may not be busy if they are indeed calling again, so what is the point ???