I must say going down on a girl is one of my favourite things about sex. If reverse oral isn't available then it will be a "deal breaker" in a relationship for me. Having said that, all the girls that I've gone out with have allowed me that pleasure (and as far as I can tell enjoyed it, unless they were faking).
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"
Yeah, I'm the same-- in a relationship, if a woman won't let me go down on her, it's also a 'deal breaker' for me as well. I won't go to an escort that doesn't allow it either, because I also am a 'giver'!
I've also been witness to the same phenomenon with the few Irish women I've been involved with in the last few years (as most of the ladies I've been involved with, professional or not, have been non-Irish). And whether it was a recently woman divorced of 40 who said she's been with 2 guys in her life and only one of them went down on her ever, and even then only a hand full of times in a 15 year relationship, OR a 20 year old Goth girl whose stories (which I found less-than-believable) of her sexual prowess, supposedly 'insatiable' sexual appetite, and self-proclaimed penchant for a variety of fantasies, some of them rather extreme (like RAPE fantasy?), and alleged numbers of past partners that could rival some of the escorts on the site, they all professed a disliking of RECEIVING oral-- although they were very willing to GIVE it, even rather eager to give it!
Now I can't figure it out, and I can only speculate like the rest of the folks here as to why this seems to be the case with so many of them. There's been some good ideas mentioned thus far, but I'm not sure we can ever come up with anything really decisive to explain it fully.
Last edited by Cable87; 18-01-11 at 19:33.
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It appears to be quite common, regardless it is meant to be a two way thing, 'giving' something the other person doesnt want is counter productive.
Lads I love to give oral, it gets me off as much as it does them. Nothing better than spreading ladies legs apart and eith from the front or from behind just feel their bodies quiver as you work your magic
Best if tehy are shaved as picking hairs out of your mouth a few hours later is just not cool
I have to agree that in my albeit limited experience Irish women in general (though thankfully not always!) are reluctant to receive oral - why, I don't know. A shockingly large number don't shave below and I suspect this could be part of the problem - a mixture of self-consciousness, worry about snagging teeth on pubic hair, etc. but really I don't get it - if a girl is happy to go down on me what is the problem in going down on her?
And before anyone asks I do trim below ...