Originally Posted by
Cable87
Thanks for the further insights and comments Carlos and the rest of you gents.
I suppose that for clarification, I'd like to say that my response specifically reflects the aspects of the original question which have affected/shaped my love/sex life since I started punting, and that is how my "expectations" of women have changed. It's specifically been my expectations of what a sexual encounter is supposed to be, how good it is, and how it's supposed to take place that has changed. And as I'd said, and what Carlos has understood dead-on, is that the expectations for a sexual encounter between yourself and an escort can and almost always does (at least for me) affect the way you expect sexual encounters with non-escorts to go as well. It is this side of things that has to be kept in check, as you'd just be setting yourself up for disappointment if you expect that 'regular' women will provide just as exciting of a sexual encounter as paid professionals!
I suppose that my "perspective" has also changed a bit as well, in that I don't overly romanticize about women (escort & non-escort alike) nearly as much as I used to, and I tend to feel more comfortable interacting with all women since I began punting. Perhaps it's similar to what others said earlier in the thread, about the women on the site being "Goddesses"; while many of the women that are or have advertised here are certainly stunning, world-class beauties (some of whom I've had the pleasure of meeting), I've come to learn that even these "Goddesses" are, in the end, 'real' people too, and once you get past their looks, you can see that there are often friendly, down-to-Earth people, with the same hopes, dreams, problems and concerns as anyone else. And often, if you're lucky, you might get to know just a bit about that 'real' person that exists behind the 'Goddess' image-- because ultimately, that's all that it is, an IMAGE.